reidqa Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 Forum, There is possible 3 negatives from an affair, i did a poll online and wanted to ask (correaltion) as to the results of mine and the forum. 1: Violence: We read it in the news. 2: Child born not of spouse: Man raising child not his. 3: AID's: Sickness or possible death. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lukeb Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 I would have thought that guilt and feeling like a low-life because you are betraying the person you were supposed to be true to would be in there. All of the negative consequences listed are about how it would negatively affect the person doing the cheating. I just think that is a bit selfish and sad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
corrin Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 I'm confused. You already did a poll or is this the poll? An affair certainly may produce far more than the three negative consequences you list. You are ignoring the effects an affair has on the partner's self esteem, the impact on the relationship, and the harm to any children. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lavenderdove Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 Oh, there are far more than 3 negatives results/consequences of an affair! You have categorized only a few of them... emotional devastation of innocent spouse and children, economic destruction/financial disaster of a divorce, loss of the family home, loss of security, etc. etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reidqa Posted June 15, 2011 Author Share Posted June 15, 2011 Hi, Yes already did the poll. THese would be the three worse. Wondering if results correalated with other poll. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lukeb Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 I guess so far there is a lot of disagreement that these are the three worse consequences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocio Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 I don't think any of us really understand what you're asking or what kind of response you're looking for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reidqa Posted June 16, 2011 Author Share Posted June 16, 2011 Rocio, which of the 3 is the worst. Wow was easier on another forum. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritterSweet Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 which of the 3 is the worst. IMO, worst is violence. I also just learned that you can get arrested for adultery in the Philippines. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lukeb Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 which of the 3 is the worst. Well you never asked that question before. I guess I would agree on the three listed, violence is the worst. You have to know though it is a very skewed way of running a poll. It doesn't give you an answer of what people believe is worst consequence from infidelity, it just gives you an indication of what people think is worst from the things that you listed. It might give you the answer that you are looking for, whether it is an accurate reflection is another matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ariel85 Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 You forgot the biggest one - loss of political office. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Firecracker Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 Sometimes loss of Weiner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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