jetsuo Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 Hi Guys, Dont worry i am not in pain anymore, my girlfriend of 2 years split with me a month or so ago, and i went through a hard time, but i've gotten over that pain phase, mainly because we were prolly in a bad spot many months before we split. Im kind of concerned however for my ex girlfriend because i know i was a good boyfriend, i just lacked the ability to show my feelings, which is what she was dying for, and a new guy came along who had that ability. Im fact, since theyve been dating his (4 weeks now) shes already told me shes wants his baby, wants to move in with him and yeah other stuff. Should i be concerned? When we split, i prity much just cut her out of my life straight away because she told me she liked this other guy that she recently got to know. I did tell her to take it slow, but shes going very fast i think. Whats the psychology behind this? I know shes being silly, but id like to hear some more feedback. I am 22 male, Shes 18 year old female. The guy i think is like 19 or something, he also just came out of a relationship of many years. He also seems to be quite a controlling, and paranoid guy and his really really jumping into this, and shes seems to be happy to go with it. Its kinda confusing. I dont know what to make of it, and im surprised none of her friends havent said anything (im assuming they havent judging on what shes told me). I donno, i guess im just looking for some answers here, i am trying to be neutral and just stating the facts. Im worried about her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
22n32 Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 she is ur ex so u shouldnt be concerened.. let her make decesion and mistakes on her own.. i know u care about her so u wanna help.. but its best for u just to stay outa of it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jetsuo Posted March 22, 2011 Author Share Posted March 22, 2011 Yeah you make a good point. I have basically done NC since we split, except today when we exchanged some basic stuff that she kept asking for and she practically bragged about her new man. I said to her ill drop her an email at end of the year, so 8 months from now for a catch up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MakeItCount Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 You should be glad that ticking time bomb is now not yours to handle IMO. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jetsuo Posted March 22, 2011 Author Share Posted March 22, 2011 Hmm so you reckon shes a ticking time bomb? She's very academically smart, is there any hope for her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sherryberrypie Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 academically smart or not, she is clearly naive and lacks self-esteem. If this guy is already possessive and moving very quickly, I can pretty much predict where she will be in two years (or less). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jetsuo Posted March 23, 2011 Author Share Posted March 23, 2011 yeah your right she is naive and lacks alot of self-esteem, which is weird cause shes really attractive but i dont know much about that sort of thing. Whats your predictions where she will end up in a few years time? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sherryberrypie Posted March 24, 2011 Share Posted March 24, 2011 Some of the most attractive people have the lowest self-esteem. It's sad, really. Single welfare momma, an extra 30 pounds on her, a dead-end job, the whole bit. Maybe it will be different for her, but I've seen it so many times now that I doubt it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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