Lonewing Posted February 5, 2011 Share Posted February 5, 2011 I've seen some monster sized penises. They don't look appealing.... Do you only think of large breasted women in porn when having sex with your gf? Doesn't the question seem silly when you switch the situation and answer for yourself? This is one reason I prefer having the lights. I can be pretty sure which breasts I have in mind... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lonewing Posted February 5, 2011 Share Posted February 5, 2011 I'm glad you're feeling better and you recognize it as insecurity. It'd irk me a bit if my bf came home saying 'omg, this woman's breasts at work were huge' but bigger is not always better. In fact, it usually isn't when it comes to body parts. Anything more than a handful [or a mouthful] is a waste? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cognitive_Canine Posted February 5, 2011 Share Posted February 5, 2011 Anything more than a handful [or a mouthful] is a waste? I saw a rather large woman using her excess cleavage as a phone holder. Gross but clever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lonewing Posted February 6, 2011 Share Posted February 6, 2011 I saw a rather large woman using her excess cleavage as a phone holder. Gross but clever. That's ripe for so many crude jokes i'm not even going to start! The worse though are the girls who use their bra as a purse, but haven't quite mastered the art of being subtle or discrete in how they "rummage" through their purse yet. I went on a date with a girl like that once, I was Utterly repulsed... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scotty2422 Posted February 6, 2011 Author Share Posted February 6, 2011 No, we have not... that fact of the matter is, the nipples are one of the most errogenous parts of the body - female nipples experience a brief change during childbirth due to hormonal shift that decrease sensitivity. Otherwise, it is possible to orgasm from nipple stimulation alone - the sensation of having the nipples touched or sucked or nibbled is similar, mentally, to the sensation of having the formal gentilia touched. And that's not due to socialization, it's how we're born... Some women can orgasm from a tongue on the back of their knee, or the wrist. Or from thinking hard enough. Doesn't change the fact breasts aren't genitalia. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lonewing Posted February 6, 2011 Share Posted February 6, 2011 Some women can orgasm from a tongue on the back of their knee, or the wrist. Or from thinking hard enough. Doesn't change the fact breasts aren't genitalia. In men too? Yeah, that's what I thought...I've met one who thought it couldn't be done, and then he met a lesbian who changed his point of view. Look up a nerve ending map - the nipples are both physically and physiologically connected to respond to sexual stimuli - the female's nipple in particular have more nerve endings than the male's. External stimulus of the nipples is tied directly to the release of oxytocin - one of the more potent chemicals released during sex. One more indicator? The breasts themselves develop as a direct response to puberty. This isn't rocket science; there is no mistake in labeling breasts as part of the genitalia. You haven't posted your age, but I would venture a guess that you haven't experienced much of this for yourself...nor gone very far into the medical literature...nor had a responsive partner to give you feedback on this subject. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mammadon Posted February 6, 2011 Share Posted February 6, 2011 I think if she's a size queen, so be it. But I doubt she would dump you for a larger cocked man, especially since you and her have invested so much into the relationship, and are near marriage. I wouldn't think much into it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scotty2422 Posted February 6, 2011 Author Share Posted February 6, 2011 I think if she's a size queen, so be it. But I doubt she would dump you for a larger cocked man, especially since you and her have invested so much into the relationship, and are near marriage. I wouldn't think much into it. Thanks. Yeah, after watching an "adult" movie last night (with the first male "actor" sporting one of the longest I've seen, had to have been in the 9" plus range) we had a helluva night of fun. Sure, his generous endowment made me squirm a little, if only at first, but I didn't get any indication from her that his massive tool (as well as her drawing "muse") are anything more than a novelty to her. As for being a size queen it doesn't seem likely. And I say that because, long story short, when we first started dating our sex together started a little "rocky," and I remember another guy was interested in her at the same time. So, basically, she chose me, while already knowing very well what was in my pants. (For the record, I'm not a "tiny" guy. Maybe 6" long on my best day, a little cheating required? and very average girth.) So even if she'd had one or a few "packing" guys in her past my average willie didn't deter her from getting serious with me. Believe me, after being so bad in bed the first few times she had a clear path to freedom. I was ready to let her move on LOL. I'd say at the most she might get a bit of a "thrill" at the visual, and that's very much been the catalyst for my angst over this whole drawing class thing. It's tough to think about your true love getting any kind of thrill from another man, and not just from him having a much larger penis than mine; better arms, shoulders, chest, face, butt, etc. can all make you feel inferior. But I would like to know her true feelings about "hung" guys, even though I know there ain't much I can do about it. I've never really kept it a secret from her that "voluptuous" women definitely turn my head (she's a nice B cup), but big swinging boobs aren't something I need for sexual satisfaction. In my head they may be "nice for a weekend" but, and I think she views large wangs in this same way, it's a novelty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrogIsFree Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 me neither.. but, that's not to say that I don't want to understand. I think there must be an unwritten rule somewhere that convinces men their appendage size matters greatly and women their bust, bum and leg proportions matter greatly to! -It would seem from this list that we women have more areas to be concerned about but it's not necessarily a different issue - I just see an attractive man.. full stop. I don't tend to check out everything going. However, I tend to think both men and women are undiscriminating at times when it comes to finding lots of women or men respectively a turn on because the appendage whether its breast size or penis size is just `obviously' sexual.. but it does not mean they are not bored with it ten seconds later, some women might argue much longer for men! but I don't want to assume anything here! and that it is indeed just the `novelty' factor that causes so many issues between men and women feeling insecure about identified parts of their body, penis size not being the only one! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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