lala12345 Posted December 30, 2010 Share Posted December 30, 2010 So me and my ex have been talking recently as friends. We were texting last night and it was going really well and all of a sudden he stopped, so I went to bed. Anyways I sent him a text this afternoon saying hey but got no reply. I figured he was probably busy and left it until the evening before I text him saying hello. I still got no reply so I sent him a text saying either your phone is being stupid or your being ignorant, he text back after that saying hes had the worst day imaginable and hed rather be left alone. I've been trying to think what could have happened that was so terrible as to why he wouldn't want to talk to me about it? I didn't ask him obviously I just said ok text or ring me if you want to talk and left it at that. Does anyone know what could have happened to him? Or is he using that as an excuse because he doesn't want to talk to me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
savignon Posted December 30, 2010 Share Posted December 30, 2010 Well I certainly have no idea what if anything happened to him but if/when he wants to talk to you, he knows how to reach you. Could be he was just avoiding you or could be he had a really bad day and didn't want to talk about it as he said. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SapphireNoir10 Posted December 30, 2010 Share Posted December 30, 2010 Thats the problem with exes. They are probably very uncertain and you never know where you stand. Stay strong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted December 30, 2010 Share Posted December 30, 2010 He's probably having a bad day, and just like any other friend, he simply doesn't feel like talking. I'm sure they'll be other days where you don't hear from him, which doesn't mean that you're not 'friends." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lavenderdove Posted December 30, 2010 Share Posted December 30, 2010 If the real thing is he chasing new women too, of course he's not going to tell you, 'i'm with someone else right now so can't text...' the important thing is he's your EX and you need to lower your expectations that he will be at your beck and call now... he may be off doing who knows what, including breaking off a text convo with you because some other girl he's interested in started texting him... you can't guess why, but recognize that perhaps you are texting him too much if he's not your boyfriend anymore, and start meeting new guys and putting your efforts into them rather than expecting your ex to carry on with you like nothing has changed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geekgirl4 Posted December 31, 2010 Share Posted December 31, 2010 Agree with lavender, your second text to him about why he's not responding, and your speculations on why he isn't talking to you about it goes further than a "friendship" with your ex. Are you trying to get back with him? Sometimes when people have a bad day, they just need some time for themself to recover. Let him have that time and just let him know you're there to listen if he needs it. But honestly, I would try to keep myself from getting too close to an ex, especially if you're trying to move on with your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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