jantra77 Posted July 15, 2007 Share Posted July 15, 2007 i love it!!!!!! If he didn't get one I would think that I was a bad kisser Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HMBandana Posted July 16, 2007 Share Posted July 16, 2007 How about some male input? I seriously can't be bothered to go through 25 pages to see if anyone's said anything similar If you're attracted to someone, you can get a boner by just looking at them. A lot of people think that if a guy has an erection, they must be thinking about sex. This is not true We can be thinking completely wholesome thoughts and just want to have some cuddles and the nice sensation would bring about an erection. And sorry girls. It doesn't even mean you're a good kisser. You wouldn't believe how easily we're turned on by you. It's unfair because it makes us almost completely at your will. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hottboarderchick Posted July 18, 2007 Share Posted July 18, 2007 I don't find it nasty. I enjoy it actually. Makes you feel like your doing something right. It shows that he likes you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
srt86hil Posted July 18, 2007 Share Posted July 18, 2007 We can be thinking completely wholesome thoughts and just want to have some cuddles and the nice sensation would bring about an erection. And sorry girls. It doesn't even mean you're a good kisser. You wouldn't believe how easily we're turned on by you. It's unfair because it makes us almost completely at your will. I'm afraid to break this to you girls, but it's all true. Personally, I've never kissed anyone that I didn't like, but would imagine that not finding someone attractive wouldn't prevent an 'uprising'. Very happy to hear that so many of you find it a turn-on though. I reckon a lot of guys get embarrassed about it because it makes them seem like they get turned on very easily, and I suppose it's seen as comparable to premature ejaculation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
srt86hil Posted July 18, 2007 Share Posted July 18, 2007 Hey I have a question for the gentlemen - what do you think when you see girls/own girlfriend with erect nipples under their tops? Is it a turn on, embarrassing, funny, good, bad...??? Definitely VERY hot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cristalgold Posted July 22, 2007 Share Posted July 22, 2007 it's a turn on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeckyllNHyde Posted July 22, 2007 Share Posted July 22, 2007 i love it. i would however prefer not to feel it on the first dates since it would make me feel like thats all he has on his mind(which is probably true but still) its nice to think that Maybe he is also just focussing on me and having a nice time in my conmpany. but i definatly love feeling a guys boner when we are making out since it shows i turn him on and it feels great to grind against Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hackuuna Matata Posted July 22, 2007 Share Posted July 22, 2007 I'm afraid to break this to you girls, but it's all true. Personally, I've never kissed anyone that I didn't like, but would imagine that not finding someone attractive wouldn't prevent an 'uprising'. Very happy to hear that so many of you find it a turn-on though. I reckon a lot of guys get embarrassed about it because it makes them seem like they get turned on very easily, and I suppose it's seen as comparable to premature ejaculation.Bingo. I was embarrassed by it at first but then thought to myself, "I can't help it if I find her attractive, so she really should take it as a compliment". And if she has a huge problem with it then it's certainly someone I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with. EDIT: err, maybe I missed one of the points made: namely that we can get a boner even with someone not attractive to us. It's probably true but that's sort of irrelevant anyway. I'd question the motives of any guy getting close enough to kiss a girl (so she could even feel a boner) if he is not in some way attracted to her... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
memyselfi1607307658 Posted August 17, 2007 Share Posted August 17, 2007 I would take it as a compliment. It shows you the guy actually feels something for you so you don't have to feel insecure (sometimes the kisss isn't enough). I reckon you can stop it being awkward by making a joke about it (also helps any post kiss awkardness). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bookworm_92 Posted August 24, 2007 Share Posted August 24, 2007 its a little embarrasing, yeah, but i dunno, i guess id laugh and keep kissing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Never_the_same Posted August 25, 2007 Share Posted August 25, 2007 its a plus when i kiss my man and he starts to get hard. that mean i have a positive effect on him and that he really is into me and wants something more other than kissing. it actually turns me on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
333 Posted August 27, 2007 Share Posted August 27, 2007 it's strange, just my presense makes my boyfriend go hard. he gets embarrassed by it quite often because it happens a ton in public, but we always make a joke out of it. he says the way i speak can just make him 'pop up', haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honesty Posted September 15, 2007 Share Posted September 15, 2007 If it's an actual boyfriend, I love it. A first date and he was close to me kissing, and got hard..Not so sure. But guess they can't help it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
someguy88 Posted September 15, 2007 Share Posted September 15, 2007 lol what a funny thread. I don't think I've ever been embarrassed about getting a boner when kissing a girl and I find it hard to believe that any guys are really embarrassed about it. Also, a note for the ladies: When we're hard, we ALWAYS want you to grab it, rub it, or at the very least acknowledge it with a remark like "wow, your giant * * * * * is hard!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rentangel24 Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 It makes me feel sort of good that I'm turning someone on. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luciano Posted September 19, 2007 Share Posted September 19, 2007 Idk when ever I make out with my girlfriend yeah I get a hard on but it is a bit awkward and normally yeah I try and hide it but here is an absolutely off topic question. So I have never asked her if she minds or anything but she usually initiates some form of sexual stimulation for both of us aka dry humping etc..... So that is a sign, I am guessing that she likes it???? We have only been dating for 4 days and * * * * is moving fast so it is hard to read a brand new person..... Anyone help me out here??? Thanks -Luciano Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
android12 Posted September 19, 2007 Share Posted September 19, 2007 my bf gets boners from lying on me, kissing, talking on the phone...thing is i never notice, he usually points it out lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ftheunion Posted September 21, 2007 Share Posted September 21, 2007 More yankees from socal replying than I expected. My ex didn't mind, but didn't rub up super close while it was up. Just 13 year olds though.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EnterEnd Posted October 15, 2007 Share Posted October 15, 2007 I tried to hide it a bit when this was happening with a new girl I met. I ended up putting my right leg in between hers so to speek.. so then he was on the outside Will think twice next time .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Celina19 Posted October 22, 2007 Share Posted October 22, 2007 My boyfriends and male friends get them constantly, takes almost no encouragement. I always roll my eyes but really I take it as a compliment Kissing, pressing against them, sometimes just being close but not touching. Its ridiculous! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warriorspeed350 Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 wow reading this made me feel better, when im with my g/f and im just laying there holding hands or holding her etc, im like "oh god hope he doesnt surprise her under there whats she gonna think? then im like what is wrong with me, this little activity shouldnt get me up" but boners in school suck ass i hate it...it seems as if i have a boner cycle, it is almost always at the same time every day i get one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryan250 Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 awwww hell yeah. i'm not shy. i mean if the girl is into me enough that she has engaged in making out, i highly doubt she would care. it never even crossed my mind if it would offend her. i let it be known that im young and healthy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
selkie Posted October 26, 2007 Share Posted October 26, 2007 I LOVE that this thread is over 3 years old. I bet if I come back here in 15 years it will still be going. Anyway, the only guy who didnt get a boner kissing me made me think he was GAY. This was a guy I dirty danced in front of all night and who had tol dme how sultry and hot I am. Turns out he was a whiskey d1ck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluefishie Posted October 26, 2007 Share Posted October 26, 2007 When I'm with my boyfriend and we're making out, It is one hell of a turn on. When I know he is turned on, it turns me on even more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
selkie Posted October 26, 2007 Share Posted October 26, 2007 This reminds me of my 1st boner encounter. I was so damn pure that in 9th grade I was at a dance and this senior who was 6'5 (i was and am 5'5) was slow dancing against me and i thought he was rudely pushing against my stomach with his lower arm. Hahahaha. It wasnt an arm. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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