Vibrators

[lostgirlaus]

I was just wondering how many women here use vibrators? I lost my virginity earlier this year, and before that I had never masterbated. Even now, it's not something I do. To me it does nothing because I know it's me and I even get bored sometimes! When my boyfriend fingers me thats a whole different story. I thought maybe getting a vibrator might help me. Any ideas for a first vibrator? Has anyone here used the "ohmibod"? It sounds amazing...

[Lady Rashomon]

Three words: Hitachi Magic Wand.

 

And yes, I use a vibrator nearly every day--multiple times a day, in point of fact.

[Jd1983]

Rabbit vibrator or the bullet.

[koolaidnovel]

Explore! Vibrators are so much fun. I can always get an orgasm with one, any old time, but never have with a guy. haha

 

Don't spend too much money. All you need is a simple 5 inch one that curves a little at the end. (Standard vibrator? I dunno what it's called, or if it even has a name...) What works for me is the vibration close to my clit, not the shape. So keep in mind, simple might be better.

[lvsthebeach]

I agree with JD1983. Rabbit or bullet. But if you like insertion, go for the Rabbit or a simple old fashioned vibe. I am actually needing a new one myself!

[KG]

G/F loves the Silver Bullet I got her.

[somegirl30]

I wouldn't spend a whole lot on your first vibrator, especially since you aren't sure you'll like it. I recently got my first vibe for around $10-15. I really like it, but then again I really liked masturbating without a vibrator, too.

[Sparkly Eyes]

Vibrators have the devil in them. Your clitoris will come off if you use them more than three times.

[emma34]

Whhhhaatt?

[Sparkly Eyes]

Whhhhaatt?

 

Just joking, Please don't ban me mods.

 

Get the bullet one, they rock. But be careful not to get addicted to it because then oral or fingers won't work for you.

[emma34]

addicted?? I don't know about that....sex is a very emotional thing for women...i'm not sure a vibrator will really subsitute for that. but anyway, i have the bullet and i enjoy it. have fun!

[Sparkly Eyes]

vibrator won't be a substitute...But the clitoris gets used to that level of vibration and can't get satisfied with lower levels of vibration or tenderness of tongue. Just my experience anyway.

 

Mind you, I already used mine twice today morning. I wish I used my hands, but it's just easier to use the vibe.

[greywolf]

addicted?? I don't know about that....sex is a very emotional thing for women...i'm not sure a vibrator will really subsitute for that. but anyway, i have the bullet and i enjoy it. have fun!

 

i believed worriedgirl's point is that sometimes the body becomes so used to orgasming from a vibrator that it is no longer able to orgasm by other means.

[lostgirlaus]

Wow I lost track of this tread. Never got around to getting one but I did see one online I liked the look of (link removed) so I might go check that out in store tomorrow

[lvsthebeach]

Bought a new Rabbit yesterday! It is WONDERFUL!

[emma34]

are you serious???!! okay well, i am going to use the vibrator a little less!!

[Cognitive_Canine]

Is there any way a vibrator can help lead to orgasms? I've never had one before, I've gotten so close but I can't seem to 'tap into' it and finally release. It's extremely frustrating and it's painful for me to masturbate and never get that release.

 

I am wondering if after I've had my first orgasm, if it will be easier to have orgasms from that point on.

[greywolf]

Is there any way a vibrator can help lead to orgasms? I've never had one before, I've gotten so close but I can't seem to 'tap into' it and finally release. It's extremely frustrating and it's painful for me to masturbate and never get that release.

 

I am wondering if after I've had my first orgasm, if it will be easier to have orgasms from that point on.

 

The Hitachi Wand is really good for that. It's huge and not something you want to carry around with you everywhere, but it's known for helping girls orgasm the first time.

[Cognitive_Canine]

You can buy vibrators used on Amazon. That's something I never wanted to know.

[lostgirlaus]

So a late update to this thread. Bought a vibrator, used it for about a minute or so and never looked at it again haha. It does nothing for me.. Maybe I need the whole emotional attachment that goes with sex that only a partner can bring... I'm still concerned about the orgasming though

[quirky]

You are still young in the world of sex, it might be something that comes with experience. Every female can orgasm. And to answer your opening question I have never had a vibrator, kinda prefer waiting for the real thing. I also don't get one because I am scared I will like it too much and then no man will be good enough. As it is, it takes me some internal effort to relax sexually with a guy. I can imagine not making that effort if I have a great alternative..lol.

[lostgirlaus]

I thought a vibrator might help with my "cravings" as I like to think of them haha but it's just been the same as masterbation for me, it does nothing at all :S I've been close to orgasming a few times but I just hold back because I'm afraid of "squirting"

[greywolf]

What kind of vibrator did you get? Sometimes you need a little bit more than just the physical stuff. Have you considered reading an erotic story first and then trying it?

[mymie]

I've been close to orgasming a few times but I just hold back because I'm afraid of "squirting"

 

For what it's worth, I would consider that very hot if my girl did that. I mean, if there's ever a sign that I'm doing something right, that'd be it. I can't be the only guy that feels this way.

[r3ni]

So a late update to this thread. Bought a vibrator, used it for about a minute or so and never looked at it again haha. It does nothing for me.. Maybe I need the whole emotional attachment that goes with sex that only a partner can bring... I'm still concerned about the orgasming though

 

Keep trying, you'll get there. It may be that you just need more or different kinds of stimulation, there is a lot of variation in what it takes for girls.