OptomisticGirl Posted December 10, 2011 Author Share Posted December 10, 2011 I can (we get 5 per year) but it's the weekend - not many people to call in who are willing to cover a weekend shift. That and it's just that tired feeling and sore throat - the only time I call in is if I'm sick to my stomach or I'm throwing up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 11, 2011 Author Share Posted December 11, 2011 Am I bad mom for spraying the air freshener can when my child wouldn't stop rooting through the plastic bag that was getting on my nerves? Maybe a little. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 12, 2011 Author Share Posted December 12, 2011 I stopped by Walmart on my way from work tonight to pick up some Christmas gifts for my niece. I had stopped by their earlier in the day to pick my nephew's christmas up. I went in on a gift with my mom, it's this zoo like thing and has a bunch of different animals that make sounds. I dunno. It only came with 4 of the animals though so I told mom I would pick up the other 4 which were $3 a piece - geez! He's worth it though. And then I also picked him up this: image removed So I literally spent 20 minutes in the girl section looking for my niece's presents. I def. want all little boys now. Little girls just have wayyyy too many choices to make from. I evnetually went with this cat that meows and stretches when you pet it's back (hey, it's a pet that she doesn't ACTUALLY have to look after), a Beauty in the Beast wand, and a Ariel Barbie Doll: image removed My bestie told me not to get her anything but she's my niece, she's 2 12 and it's my last Christmas to be able to buy something without having to get someone else to buy it. 3 things won't kill her and only one makes noise! I'm still making her a few gifts as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted December 12, 2011 Share Posted December 12, 2011 I got Luke that penguin thing last year! I'm coming around on kids and we both want a boy so much more than a girl, for a million reasons. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 12, 2011 Author Share Posted December 12, 2011 Did he like it? I have seen it ever since Tyler was born but just never bought it. I can just see him beating the poor thing up! lol I always use to want girls but I def want boys now. One girl, maybe, but I will be completely fine with an all boy crew! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted December 12, 2011 Share Posted December 12, 2011 Yea Luke liked it. Think it's gone now though. We are both set on one child. But we will let god handle it for us. If we get pregnant, cool (even though I prefer not to-- would rather adopt) and if we don't get pregnant, we will take it as we aren't meant to have kids. Neither of us believes in in vitro or surrogacy but we would adopt if we are one day able to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 12, 2011 Author Share Posted December 12, 2011 I'll be surprised if it lasts more than a month with my nephew being so rough! Universe willing I wouldn't want less than 3 simply becuase I'm the oldest of 3. We'd like 4 but lets be real here - in this day and age with the economy that may not happen. So 2-3 is fine with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted December 12, 2011 Share Posted December 12, 2011 I couldn't imagine having more than one bc it just looks exhausting! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 12, 2011 Author Share Posted December 12, 2011 lol! Having my niece and nephew (who are about a year and a half apart I think in age) the night before our wedding WAS exhausting. But for me i was loving every minute of it. Def wouldn't want them that close in age though. 2-3 years. Because technically it's going to be 4 kids no matter what counting Jasper! My body can't make up it's mind if I'm constipated or I'm about to start my period. Blah. The only side effect to not taking BC... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted December 12, 2011 Share Posted December 12, 2011 I'm not on bc and I get my period at the most random times. I'll hVe it one week and then not see it for 6 weeks. Then I'll get it and have a week between them. Hate it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 12, 2011 Author Share Posted December 12, 2011 I have BC but I don't take it when I don't see L. He's actually pretty against the whole extra hormones but I hate condoms so we compromise on 2 months before I see him and for a month after I take the pill and then after that month I'll stop. i've been taking the pill every day since I was 15 as well - sure my body could use the rest! I'll start taking it again a few months before I move over and up until a few months before we start trying for a baby. I take it (other than not to have a baby right now) to regulate my periods. Like yours mine are just all over the place. Not too irregular and they it always comes once a month when I'm not on BC but the way it falls sometimes is weird. I have felt all day between feeling like I'm constipated and that pulling sensation you get in your abdomen with a period cramp. I dunno. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted December 12, 2011 Share Posted December 12, 2011 I always feel really "poopy" before mine. Like I go a lot more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 12, 2011 Author Share Posted December 12, 2011 I just have a lot more Mad Cow moments before mine, lol! Seriously, I'm more of a witch before than the week of. Although I have noticed over the years a few days before hand I'll get kind of itchy down there. Just random to, no yeast infection or anything like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 12, 2011 Author Share Posted December 12, 2011 L and I both are sick. Blah! He has the stomach flu or something - vomitting, cold chills - and I'm just stuffy. Both of us called into work today. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 13, 2011 Author Share Posted December 13, 2011 I've decided to buy a new toy (vibrator). No idea what but i want something a little more advanced than what I have now. Must look around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissancewoman101 Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 get a "rabbit" vibrator. They are REALLY good!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 13, 2011 Author Share Posted December 13, 2011 I have heard a lot about them. I have one kind of like that - the dildo with this bear like thing to stimulate the, well, you know. but the actual dildo doesn't move and I kind of want one like that. Does the rabbit do that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 save up and get the one that L can control!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 13, 2011 Author Share Posted December 13, 2011 save up and get the one that L can control!!! I had actually forgotten about that one, lol! I think if we were doing the distance for longer I would but with our work shcedules and the time difference we don't get but once a week (if that with work) that we can get together to do stuff so it's mostly just us by ourselves. If you get my meaning, lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 I Personally don't like toys that stimulate too many places at once. I like plain ones that I can use on myself but not insert. Simple ones! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 13, 2011 Author Share Posted December 13, 2011 I have tried a bullet before - I think that's what it was called, you don't insert it it just stimulates - and it did nothing for me which I found ODD because stimulation THERE is the only way I can orgasm which is why I can't have just a dildo, I need a vibrator. I think my brain tricks my vagina because it knows that's in there but it does nothing.. it's like a prop to get me off. If that makes sense, lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 A bullet by itself does nothing for me. The sheathes that go over the bullet do the trick for me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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OptomisticGirl Posted December 13, 2011 Author Share Posted December 13, 2011 Where's the sheath at? Or am I blind? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 It goes over the bullet. So like that rabbit guy in the link I posted comes on and off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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