Fudgie Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 I don't know but I'll tell you, if people (like my family) found out the stuff I've written on here, I'd just DIE. There is a really definite line and it shouldn't be crossed, ever. OG, I really hope everything is going ok and I hope the drama (if any) is minimal. Crap, I really wish I hadn't said what I said because now the sister's going to read it and want my head on a plate. And maybe OG's and anyone else who spoke badly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostnscared Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 Oh god, that's terrible!! Who would do that!! OG, is everything okay? I'm a little worried too as I said some...uhh...critical things about the situation. A lot of us said some pretty negative things about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fudgie Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 Yeah that's why I'm feeling really, really bad now. I mean, crap, no one else but us was meant to see it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 2, 2010 Author Share Posted December 2, 2010 Everyone was within their right to say what you did. ENA is a place to post problems and work through them and get insight. I as a human being, as we all are, have the right to work through problems. Be it keeping them inside or talking through them. My sister and I will eventually work things out. She knows I love her and after all, I'm entitled to my opinion. She doesn't have to agree with it. I don't know who sent it to her but to me that speaks multitudes of their character to betray another ENA members trust like that. We all are are hear to work through our problems, I wonder if they would like it if it was done to them. I will not, however, stop posting. I can't vent in life and o refuse to give up this thread. Unless a mod closes it, i kind of have to then, lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostnscared Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 Good and I agree with you. I hope that you guys are able to find out who did this. And I hope your sister comes around. While we all said some horrible things about the situation--they were mostly true being the dynamics of your sisters situation. It's horrible that she found out how other people feel about it, in this way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sophie274 Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 Are you sure someone sent her a link? Are you sure your sister did not find the site on your computer history or read about ENA through facebook? - she must know of the site since you and CS met on here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
civilservant Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 There are only a few select people we're friend with on here and facebook, and that friendship status extends to both OG and I in general. I would like to think that it wasn any of those 3 and believe it wasn't. As far as I'm aware the sister dosent frequent ENA and was provided by a 'friend' with the link. Needless to say this is hassle no one needs, least of all OG. I can't speak for OG about weather she chooses to end this journal there, that's not or me to say, but obviously there's at least one seriously untrustworthy person on this board and, to be frank, it stinks. For my own part I wouldn't care if her sister reads my comments, bit I don't live in OGs situation day in day out and she isn't my sister. I'm trying hard to stay on the right side of the ENA rules here but as you can imagine I'm really quite angry at the perpetrator. We will find who it is and you will be reported, I promise you that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
civilservant Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 Sophie - that information about the link came from the horses mouth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
civilservant Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 Fudgie, who cares if she does want your head on a plate? She's not exactly the grim reaper, and you weren't saying anything inaccurate or agreed with. I think I'm for the chop before you on this one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 2, 2010 Author Share Posted December 2, 2010 Sophie- in answer to your questions those people in our lives know we met on a site but not the name. I have mentioned ena before on Facebook but not in months. I don't leave the window browser up on my computer when i leave and I always clear history. She could have stumbled accross it by accident hut I doubt it. Right now she isnt responding to me and that is her right. She and i can both agree our relationship has always been rocky. I will continue this journal though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fudgie Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 I hope you guys can find out who did this. It's a serious breach of trust. OG, I'm glad to hear things are going to be okay. My question is, yes you have ENA friends on FB and all, but does anyone else in OG's life know about ENA? I know you two met on here. Did you tell anyone that you met on here? It's possible that someone has been lurking. My heat goes out to both of you. Heaven knows I've posted a lot about my relationship on here, of which many people in my "real" life aren't aware of. I can't even stand the thought of these 2 places colliding. I hope everything will be okay. EDIT: oops, sorry OG, I just saw your previous post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
civilservant Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 Actually we've never (to my knowledge) named the forum we met on outside of here for that very reason. I know I certainly haven't. Anyway whatever it came from it here now so we kinda have to deal with it. It'll be fine in time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 2, 2010 Author Share Posted December 2, 2010 ^^lol yeah, you know how fast posting on phones go. It doesnt. We will figure what happened out. It's not going to detour me from posting about my personal life though. I am American, I do have that whole freedom of speech thing. if someone does not agree with what i wrote, on here or real life, they can simply chose not to read it then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostnscared Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 ^^lol yeah, you know how fast posting on phones go. It doesnt. We will figure what happened out. It's not going to detour me from posting about my personal life though. I am American, I do have that whole freedom of speech thing. if someone does not agree with what i wrote, on here or real life, they can simply chose not to read it then. So your sister TOLD you that someone from this site sent her the link? I'm curious as to how someone from this site(without knowing you outside of the site) could EVEN know who your sister is, how to get her the information, her name, etc. It sounds like someone may know personal information about you. Which is really creepy. Hopefully you and the mods can get down to who did it--because obviously, whoever that person is, they had malicious intent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fudgie Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 Yeah that's really malicious. How was the link sent? She needs to tell you the name of who sent it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 2, 2010 Author Share Posted December 2, 2010 She told my mom that. She still hasnt said the name of the person, if it was sent. Like i said, she isnt talking to me and she has a right not to just as I have a right to post my thoughts and feelings. It is creepy and lioe I said, speaks of their character to betray trust like that (if it did happen). And here I was all happy to have my engagement ring, lol. It will be fine though. Like I said, if anyone has a problem, they don't have to read it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 I can't believe someone would do That!! I've ways been scared someone would do the same to my family. I'd just die too. As for the food stamps wic thing, its awful to have a kid and expect the country to pay for it. That's the worst kind of breeding. Hope things get better for you both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
civilservant Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 Yeah that's really malicious. How was the link sent? She needs to tell you the name of who sent it. Ha, that'd be nice wouldn't it! Unforunatly I doubt she'll betray the betrayer! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted December 2, 2010 Author Share Posted December 2, 2010 I actually had my mom read my original entry while i was on the phone with her. Bit odd directing my mom aroumd ena, lol My mom was upset that I called my brother in law a stupid reneck (or something to that effect). Should i have? Perhaps not, but I don't feel 100% bad considering at one time he mistook something CS said on facebook and called him a tea drinking fag. We moved past that without an apology. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
civilservant Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 Should i have? Perhaps not, but I don't feel 100% bad considering at one time he mistook something CS said on facebook and called him a tea drinking fag. We moved past that without an apology. Like I said at the time, insulting my tea drinking skills? Ouch. Or not. Water off a ducks back to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 Both of you are fans of the eNA facebook page. I notices that recently when I looked at it. Maybe it showed up on your profile? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostnscared Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 I actually had my mom read my original entry while i was on the phone with her. Bit odd directing my mom aroumd ena, lol My mom was upset that I called my brother in law a stupid reneck (or something to that effect). Should i have? Perhaps not, but I don't feel 100% bad considering at one time he mistook something CS said on facebook and called him a tea drinking fag. We moved past that without an apology. Oh wow. I'd be embarrassed for my mom to read my posts. lol. Wow I'm sorry this got dragged out to your mom too. yikes. But if that "redneck" part was the only thing she was upset with, then I'd say that it isn't so bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
civilservant Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 Both of you are fans of the eNA facebook page. I notices that recently when I looked at it. Maybe it showed up on your profile? It's a big stretch to get from liking that, to this site, to OGs profile (which would require a registration to look at) to this thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 Do you guys have similar screen names on other sites or instant messaging? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fudgie Posted December 2, 2010 Share Posted December 2, 2010 Ha, that'd be nice wouldn't it! Unforunatly I doubt she'll betray the betrayer! Ahhh there goes me and positive thinking. New thought: OG how "private" is your profile, really? do you know what information shows up to others when they are not friends with you? Some people give more info out than others in that regard. I'm not sure if this is something you've already considered. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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