hers Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 dated a trekkie once...that was really bad. He cried in X-Men 3 when Patrick Stewart died, b/c Patrick Stewart was from Star Trek. need i remind you Patrick Stewart is still alive??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fudgie Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 Oh wow hers. That's....kinda bad. My cousin is a huge Trekkie/Star Wars nut (I love SW but he loves it so much he likes the newer movies too) and that sounds like soemthing he would do....> I will date a Trekkie or Star Wars person as long as he doesn't recite lines during sex or something, lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Dark Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 I'm a converted Harry Potter fan. Happened when I had nothing better to watch. I will date a Trekkie or Star Wars person as long as he doesn't recite lines during sex or something, lol. Ha ha ha! Behold!! My Light Sabre!! Cries out in Klingon when he has his O.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redrose85 Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 Oh god no. LOLOL Alex ALWAYS makes sure to tell me when someone from Star Trek/Star Wars is on tv or in a movie. I only like the old school Star Trek movies and I thought the new one was pretty awesome. He has somewhat converted me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 L is determined from me to be convertered over to the sci-fi side. I think I gave him false hope when I fell in love with Doctor Who. I REALLY was expecting that show to be lame when I started watching it in the middle of the night one night but God help him I"m a huge fan now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 So sad. A 16 year old girl from my HS shot herself a few days ago because she was being bullied at school and her family took her off life support today. It really hits home for two reasons: a) I knew her older brother, I marched with him for only a year but he was an amazingly good guy and b) I can remember walking those halls and being bullied myself. I was never the ubber popular person in HS, never had the trendest clothes or the up-to-date thing and a few people in my class were pretty mean over the years about it. We have to STOP this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissancewoman101 Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 OG, I'm sorry to hear about that. It's sad how cruel high school kids can be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fudgie Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Makes me sad too. I was bullied a LOT since I was 7 years old until I was 13. It's horrible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redrose85 Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 That's awful I wish they knew how much different life outside of hs is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 She was a BEAUTIFUL girl too, I just liked her In Memory page on facebook and she was gorgeous. Just, so sad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Dark Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 The bulling stories ally hit home for me too. Being Half European/Half Asian left me in a place where I was neither or. When I went to high school I eventually was bullied by two different schools. The school I went to and an all girls school which I had to walk past. A big group of girls always made sure I didn't belong and I was damn ugly in their eyes. I was bullied even after I left school for a short time by the same people. Months ago I saw one working at an automotive store. I believed let by gones be by gones so I went up to her to ask her for something. As soon as I walked up to her and said excuse me, she turned her back on me and walked off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 The bulling stories ally hit home for me too. Being Half European/Half Asian left me in a place where I was neither or. When I went to high school I eventually was bullied by two different schools. The school I went to and an all girls school which I had to walk past. A big group of girls always made sure I didn't belong and I was damn ugly in their eyes. I was bullied even after I left school for a short time by the same people. Months ago I saw one working at an automotive store. I believed let by gones be by gones so I went up to her to ask her for something. As soon as I walked up to her and said excuse me, she turned her back on me and walked off. It's such a rampant thing, and kids are just so MEAN. I can remember coming home from school and crying for hours because people made fun of my clothes, my hair, and just ME. The bullying finally stopped once I joined band and became a part of that circle. I don't know if it was because I had the support of 80 other people or if it was being in band gave me a backbone and self esteem but joining that probably saved my life. Won't lie, I thought about suicide a time or two in middle school. Wow... I hope those people that bullied that girl know what they did and that it stays with them for the rest of their lives. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 That's too bad! I've always thought people who are Eurasian are gorgeous. One of my ex-bfs was half white, half chinese and i thought he was so hot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Dark Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 The bullying directed towards me was based on the fact I had no group and the people who were bullying me were white supremacists. So I was very easy to bully without any back lash. It took me a years to see I am attractive and judging from the women I have been with, I do believe I do have attractive qualities because of what I went through. Some of those racist people had even changed their judgement with me just from seeing who I had been dating. From instead of mocking me, they say hi. As comforting as it is to have them be this way instead, it still does not change the fact they treated me in such a disgusting manner and to think that just seeing I can score a physically attractive girl can change their opinion of me is sad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 I agree. It takes a special kind of person to be a bully - a very low special kind of person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Dark Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Strangely in later years, I was actually accepted by skin heads as I had friends associated with them. They thought I was Portuguese though, which I usual get mistaken for rather than Asian or European. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 None of it should matter! Race, height, hair color, eye color, sexual orientation, your class... people that bully will never understand how to properly look at someone and judge them for who they are. They only see the physical aspect that they, for some reason, don't agree with. It's just sick. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Dark Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Indeed none of it SHOULD matter. Discrimination and racial discrimination is everywhere. Generic assumptions made leading to narrow minded behavior. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 I'm really tired of wedding planning. Not planning but just doing things for the wedding. Did anyone else feel like this right before the wedding? I just don't care about the small details. I don't care if there are any extra decorations or if the stuff looks good - I just want it over with so I can be his wife. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 I found my car keys! I misplaced them Sunday when I came home from my uncle's and I have been having to use my mom's set that I gave her for spare in case I locked myself out of my car. I was cleaning up my room and rearranging wedding stuff and I found them! I have also been in more contact with the bestie the last few weeks. I think me just coming out and doing that talked got us over whatever hurdle we were on. We have been texting about every other day and had an entire hour long text conversation while I was at the doctor today about the girl who shot herself and a few other things. She even posted on my facebook wall today about it being one month until my wedding. She's just responding more frequently to my texts so it's nice. She's coming down Friday about noon. Not sure what all we are going to do - I know she wants to grab lunch at Checkers since our home town no longer has a Checkers - and I could probably get some wedding shopping stuff done while we are in that area of town with her. I'm sure she will want to hit some of the shopping stores as well. I also need to get my hair cut soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 OK - it took me a moment to realise the last paragraph was about your car and not a continuation of the previous ones. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 ^ lol, yeah, I can see were the confusion could come from, lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thejigsup Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Here in Cali, you have to get the rectal, also. They don't give you a choice. I don't have a clue what they are looking for. Once I told the Doc, "How's my prostate doing these days?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firiel Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 I'm really tired of wedding planning. Not planning but just doing things for the wedding. Did anyone else feel like this right before the wedding? I just don't care about the small details. I don't care if there are any extra decorations or if the stuff looks good - I just want it over with so I can be his wife. Yes. 100%. For me, I was all excited about wedding planning for, oh, about three months. Then I was like, "Okay, let's just be married." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Me too. I was tired of planning 2 months into it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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