KH26 Posted April 20, 2011 Share Posted April 20, 2011 I'd just want to be in with some friends watching films and having a pamper evening on my hen do too, definitely wouldn't want to be out getting drunk. You should definitely do what you want! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thejigsup Posted April 20, 2011 Share Posted April 20, 2011 Avoiding strip clubs just makes sense. They are degrading to both men and women and are really stupid! But, I would love to go out on the town if I am about to give up the carefree single life forever. Going out DOES NOT have to mean getting drunk. I can have fun dining and dancing and never touch a drop (I don't drink at all!). But this is going to be YOUR BP and it should be the one YOU want. Your MOH should be happy to give you the party YOU want, not the one SHE wants. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted April 20, 2011 Author Share Posted April 20, 2011 Maybe that's the thing, I don't see it as a last thing to celebrate being single an# care free because I'm not single. I have always viewed BPs as just a bunch of friends getting together and celebrating the new step. Idk. I'm weird I think, lol. I just don't like to go out that much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thejigsup Posted April 20, 2011 Share Posted April 20, 2011 Then your BP should reflect that. We don't all have to be alike, just accepting of our differences. Actually, a night in with the girls sounds like fun, too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted April 20, 2011 Author Share Posted April 20, 2011 Work is like a soap opera, lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted April 20, 2011 Share Posted April 20, 2011 Avoiding strip clubs just makes sense. They are degrading to both men and women and are really stupid! But, I would love to go out on the town if I am about to give up the carefree single life forever. Going out DOES NOT have to mean getting drunk. I can have fun dining and dancing and never touch a drop (I don't drink at all!). But this is going to be YOUR BP and it should be the one YOU want. Your MOH should be happy to give you the party YOU want, not the one SHE wants. Agreed! I don't drink wither and always have a blast! At my bachelorette party, I took one shot, against my better judgment, and realized that I'm not that person but caved under pressure. Then people kept wanting me to take shots, like strangers. They wanted to buy them for me, but I told them I get to order it. Id sneakily tell the bartenders to give me a shot of water with a lime wedge hahaha. So in my pics, I look like I'm drinking and doing shots but I'm not. I had a blast haha. 2 of my bridesmaids wanted to do a pub crawl for my party. One of my other bridesmaids said, um, do you really think mehgan would enjoy that? The other two said, well, we would! Luckily that bridesmaid kept pushing for what I might enjoy. We had a great time though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissancewoman101 Posted April 20, 2011 Share Posted April 20, 2011 Work is like a soap opera, lol what happened? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted April 21, 2011 Author Share Posted April 21, 2011 People being stupid. A co worker (male) was told not to talk to any females that weren't in our department because rumors were starting they were seeing each other. Which is bull. He is married and a great guy to laugh with. But I did learn some juicy details about sex romps that supposedly happen here! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted April 21, 2011 Author Share Posted April 21, 2011 No gym tonight for me. Kind of bummed about it. I called mom as I walk led out to my car - I always have someone on the phone as I walk to my car at night - and I didn't even recognize her! She is so congested with a sinus infection and for some reason agreed to watch Tyler while my brother in law went on an interview. She asked me to help awatch him and she sounded so pathetic, I couldn't say no, I'm going to the gym. I'll make it up some how. One of the people in my department is.... No words to describ it. Sometims I get tired of hearing how one minute her husband is hiding things behind her back and the next how she is staying because be treats her so well that at times I just want to go please join this site - meaning ENA. I wouldn't of course. Does anyone else find that in being a ENA member when you hear situations like this you just instantly go into advice mode? I do. Tomorrow is my last day of this six day stretch. Woohoo!! Then Friday afternoon I'm heading to my uncles for his son's Doctor Who themed birthday party. Then sunday I'll meet mom at my grandparents for Tyler's first Easter. Since I'm not religious all Easter is to me really is the tradition of Easter egg hunting, def something mine and L's kids will do. L and I also get to webcam tomorrow, first time since Sunday because of his training. We talked on my way to work today because he got an early night because of a headache. Poor guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted April 21, 2011 Author Share Posted April 21, 2011 I also called our photographer today and set a date fir my bridal portraits - may 23rd Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissancewoman101 Posted April 21, 2011 Share Posted April 21, 2011 Glad you got the date set for the bridal portraits. I can't view the video. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted April 21, 2011 Author Share Posted April 21, 2011 My new hair cut I got this week, nothing drastic but it is shorter than I normally wear it since summer is coming: image removed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissancewoman101 Posted April 21, 2011 Share Posted April 21, 2011 nice haircut. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KH26 Posted April 21, 2011 Share Posted April 21, 2011 Oh I like your hair, I really need a new style! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thejigsup Posted April 21, 2011 Share Posted April 21, 2011 You would look adorable in a layered bob! But this cut looks good on you, also! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted April 21, 2011 Author Share Posted April 21, 2011 What's a layered bob? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted April 21, 2011 Author Share Posted April 21, 2011 My lower back is killing me today, ugh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted April 22, 2011 Author Share Posted April 22, 2011 Ughhhhhhhh. So I was clening a dayroom when I got paged over head. It was to another floor so I went and it was my help for the night, my co worker who every time we work together bails for some reason or another. This time it was a panic attack. I'm standing there in her day room and she is sitting there rubbing ice on her neck - no idea how that calms a panic attack - and tells me she is having a panic attack. .... Right. I faked being sick in school enough to know when someone is faking it. Ifnyour self diagnosing, your faking. Anyway, that meant I had to do all the day rooms instead of just three. Wonderful. On my last night of my six day stretch. So I called our boss to let her know and she was not happy at all. Like I sid, this isn't the first time she has done this and both of us are tired of it. I did four day rooms in an hour and a half though. And I still went to the gym, there now. My mom still feels like crap so she asked me to drive her to pick up my stepfathers check tomorrow morning. Ugh. That means getting up at eight. As lon as I'm back before 11 so L and I can web cam before I leave for my uncles. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted April 22, 2011 Author Share Posted April 22, 2011 Owe. So I was jogging on the treadmill and I suddenly got this sharp pain in my right calf. It just felt like someone had stuck a knife in it... It hurt so bad I stumbled while jogging and had to hit the emgency off switch to the machine. Now it just feels like a Charlie horse - although permanent - and I cant really put pressure on that leg. Wonderful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thejigsup Posted April 22, 2011 Share Posted April 22, 2011 What's a layered bob? It is where your hair is very short in the back and is layered to be longer in the front. My hair is just below my chin in the frong with layered side bangs and then is layered shorter and shorter the further back you go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brazilgirl21 Posted April 22, 2011 Share Posted April 22, 2011 I love your haircut!!! You look so pretty!! And be careful about labeling your co-worker a faker. I have had panic attacks and they might seem silly to others, but those things are damn real and probably one of the most scariest feeling in the world. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted April 22, 2011 Author Share Posted April 22, 2011 It is where your hair is very short in the back and is layered to be longer in the front. My hair is just below my chin in the frong with layered side bangs and then is layered shorter and shorter the further back you go. Oh yeah, a few girls at work have that style. It's cute but def. Too short for me, I won't go past my shoulders wit my hair. I love your haircut!!! You look so pretty!! And be careful about labeling your co-worker a faker. I have had panic attacks and they might seem silly to others, but those things are damn real and probably one of the most scariest feeling in the world. Thank yu BG. It's really not that it's silly - it's most def not - but it's just one thing after another with this woman and literally ONLY when she and I work together. It's a pattern even my bosses have commented on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted April 23, 2011 Author Share Posted April 23, 2011 At my uncles today. I love spending time with my second family and they are all so supportive of the wedding. My uncles wife's best friend just offered to do my hair and make up for the wedding - and she was already invited as a guest - and scheduling to go dress shopping with my BM - my uncles wife - was soooo easy. I had some issue with getting the iPads wifi set up but one of my friends kids got it running for me. I'm completely technology impaired, lol We also learned L might have to move before we were planning on him to. A little stress added to our wedding plans but we will work around it. If Feb taught me anything it's to assume nothing is smooth sailing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thejigsup Posted April 23, 2011 Share Posted April 23, 2011 I bet you will be breathing a sigh of relief when you finally get married. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted April 23, 2011 Author Share Posted April 23, 2011 God yes. The second that efficient says you may kiss the bride, I'm going to be so happy. But then I get the stress of dealing with immigration. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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