For women: self-consciousness about receiving oral

[Sweetkisses22]

I get self-conscious sometimes when I feel like I'm taking too long.

 

 

Yea i feel the same way. It takes me like 15 min or more to come. I always tell him ahead of time that it takes me awhile. If they're not selfish they shouldn't have a problem. Afterall we blow them for like 30 min or more sometimes!

[Unknown1607307972]

I have a weird thing about vaginas, I find them hideously ugly, and therefore I feel bad about my boyfriend being down there but the feeling is great, so I try not to think about it.

[Lady Rashomon]

I have a weird thing about vaginas, I find them hideously ugly, and therefore I feel bad about my boyfriend being down there but the feeling is great, so I try not to think about it.

 

Really???? I actually watch porn quite a bit because I think vaginas are incredibly lovely and most men I've met feel the same way. I guess I'm just more self-conscious about mine.

[Sparkly Eyes]

I would only feel that way the first times a guy does it for me. After that no way, I just guide his head downtown.

 

What exactly do you feel insecure about? Taste or smell? How you look down there?

[Lady Rashomon]

I would only feel that way the first times a guy does it for me. After that no way, I just guide his head downtown.

 

What exactly do you feel insecure about? Taste or smell? How you look down there?

 

Hmmm, maybe it's a combination of those things, but more than anything, I guess I worry that people have only offered to do it to be nice, and it's not something that necessarily gives them pleasure. Maybe that it's an inconvenience or something of the sort? It also takes me several minutes to climax, so I worry that I'm taking too long.

[Sparkly Eyes]

Hmmm, maybe it's a combination of those things, but more than anything, I guess I worry that people have only offered to do it to be nice, and it's not something that necessarily gives them pleasure. Maybe that it's an inconvenience or something of the sort? It also takes me several minutes to climax, so I worry that I'm taking too long.

 

Don't worry about that. If they really don't want to, they won't offer.

[perth_man87]

It's not about being "nice" really the guy's just trying to please you, it's not about him. I find that giving usually brings pleasure anyway