Blackey Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 So its been 7 months since i got dumped, I remember clearly how much i tried contact my ex just to talk to her, but she ignored me the whole time, send her many msgs via cellphone or facebook or you just name it...not even a single response. During roughly 4 months, every phone call, every msg i got, i was hoping that its her, so we could talk, you know how it is, im pretty sure that you had/have it also, pretty anooying thing, but it was never her. During this time, I also decided to go strict NC, and i was always questioning myself if i can keep it when she will contact me, wil I be strong enough to ignore her? In most of the cases my answer to myself was NO, im not strong enough and i would probably reply her, although realistically i tried to keep the idea that i will never ever talk to her again, mainly because she herself would never contact me, at least i thought so. Today, i come back home, after watching a nice movie (Predators) and spending a very nice evening with my friends, i go on facebook, and what do i see? a msg from her... saying "hey, how are you, are you coming to (some event)" Wow, that moment, i got the biggest smile on my face, and with great pleasure, i erased her msg, and i have no intention of replying, long live NC !!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackey Posted July 19, 2010 Author Share Posted July 19, 2010 And remember one more thing, NO response is better than negative or positive response . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summer12 Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 Congrats! Can't wait to be where you are one day! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackey Posted July 19, 2010 Author Share Posted July 19, 2010 Trust me summer, you are on the way there, how long ago did you you break up? and i actually opened a thread and said that if i could get a time machine, i would go back ot the first week following my break up and tell silly me that i will be more than fine and i will feel better than always since in the process i have improved myself during this time...if only I knew all of these back then i would spare the 7 months sadness and do something useful, so trust me you will be fine, i was there and now im more than fine, so i know it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summer12 Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 Well the "break up" was around last December when I went back to college but it really was as if we were doing a LDR and hadn't broken up. But in May is when I found out he had been talking to another girl who lives in our hometown and they started dating. I have done 2 months NC where 1 time I broke NC. I was just looking through your threads and you have come a long way! That's great! You must feel so much satisfaction to have her being the one who gets ignored! I definitely needed to read your post since nights are hard for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackey Posted July 19, 2010 Author Share Posted July 19, 2010 haha you have no idea how good of a feeling it is, and yeh as many of the people here, i went a long way, from zero to hero , yeh you can go over my post, just dont call 911 haha , and if you need an advice or if u need to talk to someone, you can always turn to me ,im always glad to help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Summer12 Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 Thanks for the support. Keep us updated! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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