this isnt good Posted July 11, 2010 Share Posted July 11, 2010 Hi i have been seeing this girl for about 7 months and i am now having thoughts about ending it but i am struggling to make up my mind about it. I saw d20's post of pros and cons and thought i would make one of my own. i was just wondering what you guys think, i really need some help with this as i just cant make up my mind. thanks Pros Sexy smile Good fun Good sense of humour Not afraid to get hands dirty Funny Have a lot in common Never complains Amazing hair Likes being outdoors Doesn’t ask for things or want expensive stuff Smart Good idea what she wants to do in the future Has an amazing soft voice Good Cook Excellent driver Easy to keep a conversation going with Really cool parents Enjoy spending time with her Cons Doesn’t make a great deal of attempt to contact me Sometimes takes days to return texts or calls No Sex Does not like public displays of affection Her goals in life vary slightly from mine Sometimes acts spoilt Always has to have her make up on Can be too shy sometimes Difficult to make her open up to me Sometimes acts like a child Can be difficult at times Moody occasionally Rarely compliments me about anything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted July 11, 2010 Share Posted July 11, 2010 Cons outweight the pros IMO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted July 11, 2010 Share Posted July 11, 2010 what's with the no sex thing? have you guys talked about that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daligal83 Posted July 11, 2010 Share Posted July 11, 2010 I think you should also make a list if what you want and what you need in a relationship and compare it to your pros and cons list. You should also consider if something doesn't match up, can you talk to her about it? Have you expressed to her that you'd like to see her often and communicate more? That you want to receive compliments? A relationship is all about communication. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
this isnt good Posted July 11, 2010 Author Share Posted July 11, 2010 thats a good idea i think daligal i do need to talk to her and see whats going on and also evaluate what i need to get out of a relationship. The whole sex thing doesnt really bother me as she doenst want sex before marrige and it never really bothered me but now i come to think of it it kind of does but it isnt an important factor at this moment in time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted July 11, 2010 Share Posted July 11, 2010 totally agree with dali, that is a great suggestion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Distant Posted July 12, 2010 Share Posted July 12, 2010 The "doesnt make a great deal of attempt to contact me" kinda sticks out to me. Sounds like she will only contact you when she feels fit and ready to see you. Doesnt sound to good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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