BriarRose Posted June 24, 2010 Share Posted June 24, 2010 I'm not complaining, it wasn't meant to be - he didn't feel what I did - but I do miss him and wish we could've remained friends. I look back at some old posts and I'm surprised at how much anger I had for him - I was just hurt, that's all. I'm sure he is probably in a relationship now because he's never gone this long without trying to contact me, and honestly - I'm glad he's not contacting me. Not because I don't care, but because I do. Just a rant, I guess. I hope he is doing okay. (* I have no intention of contacting him, don't worry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pumpkinmoon Posted June 24, 2010 Share Posted June 24, 2010 Its natural to miss him and 5 weeks isn't that long at all. It does get easier. I know from the past but I am in it again now and it's so hard. Rememeber what I said to you once, you have been given a second chance for a reason. There is happiness in store for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BriarRose Posted June 24, 2010 Author Share Posted June 24, 2010 Its natural to miss him and 5 weeks isn't that long at all. It does get easier. I know from the past but I am in it again now and it's so hard. Rememeber what I said to you once, you have been given a second chance for a reason. There is happiness in store for you. Thanks, I know I will feel better. I know this was nothing compared to what some other people on here have gone through. But I still get sad some days. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunday2010 Posted June 24, 2010 Share Posted June 24, 2010 6 and half weeks now for me.He hasn't contacted me either. Can't even be friends by the look of it.... its a pretty sad way to be.to not even talk to somebody you knew for 3 and bit years. promised we'd still talk was all a bunch of BS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenna-is-here Posted June 24, 2010 Share Posted June 24, 2010 I think tha hardest part of my nc was between 5-8 weeks. That is when I really started to get the urges to call and text. I never did thank goodness. It's now been 10 weeks. No urges anymore. I think at this point it would b more awkward than anything so I actually hope he doesn't contact me. Also, I don't want to b friends w him. Too painful. Also, i wanted him as a long term partner not only a friend. So I have no plans to b friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BriarRose Posted June 24, 2010 Author Share Posted June 24, 2010 I think tha hardest part of my nc was between 5-8 weeks. That is when I really started to get the urges to call and text. I never did thank goodness. It's now been 10 weeks. No urges anymore. I think at this point it would b more awkward than anything so I actually hope he doesn't contact me. Also, I don't want to b friends w him. Too painful. Also, i wanted him as a long term partner not only a friend. So I have no plans to b friends. I have no urge to contact him, partly because he probably has a gf by now. But like you said, too painful to be friends anyways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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