peanutbutterandjelly Posted June 23, 2010 Author Share Posted June 23, 2010 yeah, ideally i would like to wait until im in a committed relationship, but I mean... if things keep going the way theyve been going lately, i dont think that will be happening anytime soon. So I guess I might have to explore other options. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonny15 Posted June 24, 2010 Share Posted June 24, 2010 I am about 8 months out of a 3.5 year relationship and I find myself getting more and more desperate for sex. I don't have anyone I can call up to relieve "the itch" which I guess is what a lot of girls in my situation do. It's getting so bad that I am masturbating for a couple hours a night and having about 5 orgasms a night before I go to bed. Sometimes I use my fingers, sometimes I use a vibe, sometimes I watch porn, sometimes I read erotica etc. But even sometimes after that, I dont feel completely satisfied Welcome to the club of no sex. Enjoy your ride. The part I quoted reminds me alot of myself, minus the 8 months and types of masturbation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shudder Posted June 24, 2010 Share Posted June 24, 2010 yeah, ideally i would like to wait until im in a committed relationship, but I mean... if things keep going the way theyve been going lately, i dont think that will be happening anytime soon. So I guess I might have to explore other options. its funny all women have to do is spread the legs and anything will happen. guys need to look good and have a long schlong for that to happen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peanutbutterandjelly Posted June 24, 2010 Author Share Posted June 24, 2010 yeah, honestly i think im just not used to having someone around for sex. I was in a relationship from 14-19 and then 19-24. During that time in between, i definitely hooked up with some guys but I'm trying to be "good" this time around. But this is really the first time in my life since I was 14 years old that I havn't been sexually active and i think that's why im feeling so desperate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonny15 Posted June 24, 2010 Share Posted June 24, 2010 yeah, honestly i think im just not used to having someone around for sex. I was in a relationship from 14-19 and then 19-24. During that time in between, i definitely hooked up with some guys but I'm trying to be "good" this time around. But this is really the first time in my life since I was 14 years old that I havn't been sexually active and i think that's why im feeling so desperate. Not having sex does not mean "being good". If it were, then i'd be one of the better people ever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peanutbutterandjelly Posted June 24, 2010 Author Share Posted June 24, 2010 Not having sex does not mean "being good". If it were, then i'd be one of the better people ever. i didnt mean not having sex in general, i mostly meant promiscuous sex with guys i dont really know. i dont want to do that this time around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinkelephant Posted June 24, 2010 Share Posted June 24, 2010 It gets better. I think 8 months was around the time when I went crazy too. I think everybody goes through that. After the one year point, you just kind of forget about it. There are days though, where I *NEED* it and pretty much want to lose it. lol You're not aloneee~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonny15 Posted June 25, 2010 Share Posted June 25, 2010 i didnt mean not having sex in general, i mostly meant promiscuous sex with guys i dont really know. i dont want to do that this time around. You may say you don't want to do it, but you act like your vagina is gonna explode if you don't have a man. And I don't mean that as an insult, but you say your desperate for sex, then claim being a little promiscuous is wrong. No need to complain if you can go get it, but don't want to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peanutbutterandjelly Posted June 25, 2010 Author Share Posted June 25, 2010 You may say you don't want to do it, but you act like your vagina is gonna explode if you don't have a man. And I don't mean that as an insult, but you say your desperate for sex, then claim being a little promiscuous is wrong. No need to complain if you can go get it, but don't want to. point taken. i guess i started this thread hoping someone could give me suggestions for some sort of alternative to give me some relief other than the actual act... but what is it they say about sex again? Theres nothing else like it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prettymom444 Posted June 29, 2010 Share Posted June 29, 2010 I'm in the same situation you're in, only it's been over *gulp* 2 years without sex for me. I'm to the point where I'm taking care of business a few times a day too and it's driving me to distraction! I am in a state of constant arousal - and although hiding hard nipples isn't as difficult as hiding a hard on - it can be a touchy situation when faced during a business meeting with a lot of men present! Adding to the fire is the "problem" that I've started seeing a guy and he's just the gentlemanly type of guy and seems to be happy taking everything reeeaaallly super slow - and he's driving me even more wild by not doing anything!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ravyn25 Posted May 24, 2015 Share Posted May 24, 2015 I'm the same way. Everyday I think about. I masterbate. I just want to be with someone that I could love and love me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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