AllUNeedIsLove Posted June 1, 2010 Share Posted June 1, 2010 so my ex broke it off with me about 1 month ago. I ended up agreeing to be friends with him because last time we broke it off we did NC and that just didn't work well. Well this time I agreed to be friends, but he told me that he was gonna give me space...So I haven't talked to him, IMed him, texted him etc...he does all the contacting. Usually I keep it short because I really am trying to give myself time to heal. I understand I said we can be friends, but any reasonable person (especially with past experiences) would know to give space to the dumpee. However, this hasn't been the case with me. I don't understand what he wants, I have left him alone, and he leaves me messages on IM when I am offline...he calls me and when I don't answer he leaves me voicemails saying such things as "I was thinking about you" and I wanted to know if you hate me, and wondering how you been etc...Whenever I am online he IMs me...I know that maybe he is trying to be a friend, but he is an ex as well...so I don't get what he wants... anyone ever been in my situation? help? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sonicxman Posted June 1, 2010 Share Posted June 1, 2010 Yes, he is trying to keep you close, all the girlfriend things of being close to you without being your girlfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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