cmhcali Posted May 16, 2010 Share Posted May 16, 2010 So I posted here a few days ago about a guy I went on 3 dates with... We have a lot of mutual friends. I texted with him yesterday and he said he would call me tomorrow which was today and he did not. I did not call him either as I was busy. So I end up bumping into him later tonight. It was awkward at first but I made the best of it and spoke to him briefly. At the end of the night he came up to me and asked if I was mad I said no and he said are you sure. I said yes I am. I asked him if he was ok and he explained he has been going through some family stuff but did not want to get into it. I said I understand and hope it works itself out. He said he would give me a call and had tuesday off from work. I said ok and then he hugged and kissed me on the lips in front of like 10 people some friends some I did not know. Why did he kiss me on the lips in front of everyone. My friend said it sounded territorial but I dont know what that means. There are a lot of guys in our circle that want to date me that I have no desire to date??? Thoughts??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BriarRose Posted May 16, 2010 Share Posted May 16, 2010 I assume this was at a club or something? So apprently these "family" issues were enough for him to not call you, but not enough to keep him from going out tonight. I would not pin high hopes on him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmhcali Posted May 16, 2010 Author Share Posted May 16, 2010 No it was not at a club at all or anything at all. I actually didnt want to post it here but I guess be honest. It was outside an AA meeting. We are both sober. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedDress Posted May 16, 2010 Share Posted May 16, 2010 Maybe he was busy during the day and realized he'd probably see you that night? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BriarRose Posted May 16, 2010 Share Posted May 16, 2010 No it was not at a club at all or anything at all. I actually didnt want to post it here but I guess be honest. It was outside an AA meeting. We are both sober. Well, I suppose it doesn't matter where it was. I just don't like when a man says he will call and doesn't. It's a big red flag to me. Doesn't have to be the exact hour or anything like that, but that same day or evening is expected. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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