jhinesis Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 Guys, do you ever find yourself looking at Jailbait pictures online? Not porn, but the ones of the cute young 14-18 year old girls doing the poses in the their mirrors in their underwear, or exposing a smidge of cleavage? Girls, what would you think if you found out your guy was looking at these? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SocialStigma Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 Him looking at 17-18 year olds doesn't really bother me because we're still 19 so it's not like a monstrous and disgusting age gap. Anything lower than 16 would make me feel uneasy because my sister is 15 and the idea of an older guy thinking about her sexually (not necessarily my boyfriend, but any guy), makes me really really uncomfortable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pinnsvini Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 Any guy looking at pictures of girls that are legally not allowed to have sex is a bit creepy, in my opinion. Where I am that would be girls under 16; the idea of my boyfriend looking at 14/15 year old girls is gross, regardless of their state of undress. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jd1983 Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 I would be bothered if my bf was looking at these photos. Sure, there are plenty of young actresses that are cute and pretty, but if they're underage, it somehow gives me the creeps to think that my bf is having sexual thoughts about them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katiebaby Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 Ew. After we broke up, I sprung my ex looking at pictures (he had them saved to the PC) of girls that looked as young as 14 in provocative poses... I was thoroughly grossed out! But, he had a real thing about younger girls, so as soon as we split he went after a teenager. Creep!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
getbiii Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 lol the only time i see them is on those really cheap adds! you know! the ones that say things like "find single locals near you" you can tottaly tell they just grabbed the pictures from myspace and used it for their add. i don't think any of those are under 17 thou. i was just reading an article about "innocence and sexuality" in this whole article it explains the psychology of innocence and its role in sex, how some males are sexualy atracted to young women and the porn industry takes advantage of this to gain more cash, (girls wearing ponytails, catholic school girl uniforms, saying names like daddy or tittles like barely legal or virgens.) i don't know if i miss read it or not, but i think it said that some males are atracted to young girls because of its representation of innocence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostandhurt Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 No. I see them as little girls not anything else. There are tons of more mature Women to look at. Lost Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benb Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 Once women get hips and breasts, guys are hardwired to find them attractive and want to look at them. That's really all there is to this from a biological perspective. It's up to the individual guy to engage his "higher brain functions" and determine whether this is right or not. For example, there are a ton of fathers who find their teenage daughter's friends attractive, but they choose to ignore this impulse. If you don't, you get American Beauty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
savagegirl Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 Eww. My ex looked at that kind of stuff, it weirded me out to the point where it was the cause of alot of our fights, and eventually partly led to our breakup. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teabee Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 Once women get hips and breasts, guys are hardwired to find them attractive and want to look at them. That's really all there is to this from a biological perspective. It's up to the individual guy to engage his "higher brain functions" and determine whether this is right or not. For example, there are a ton of fathers who find their teenage daughter's friends attractive, but they choose to ignore this impulse. If you don't, you get American Beauty Yup, this is what I was going to say. And I would not be so concerned that he finds jailbait attractive, as I would be concerned that he wasn't "engaging his higher brain functions" and keeping the impulse in check. Most concerning would be if the pics were of girls that looked prepubescent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
generaldiscord Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 That would be highly creepy to me, I would end it immediately, and depending on the material, I might report him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fudgie Posted May 16, 2010 Share Posted May 16, 2010 Totally agree. it's creepy. My boyfriend and I can both agree that Juliet from the 70s Romeo/Juliet movie is attractive and cute (she's 13-14) but I think that's different because she's an actress that we see and he doesn't have those thoughts about her. It really says something about a guy who actively seeks out jailbait pics online to fantasize and have sexual thoughts about them. YUCK. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newwave Posted May 16, 2010 Share Posted May 16, 2010 It depends. I am 39 so if a guy around my age was looking at those photos (even of women in their early 20's) I'd think he was a perv. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thathoopla Posted May 16, 2010 Share Posted May 16, 2010 I honestly find that completely disgusting after the guy is like 18-19-20. It doesn't matter to me if the girls have gone through puberty and are sexually mature. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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