violetka Posted May 4, 2010 Share Posted May 4, 2010 So after being bullied and sexually harassed by my ex, I decided I will do the following things: 1. cut off contact from ex completely, never speak to him directly 2. show up everywhere and stop hiding so that he does not have any chance of manipulation 3. if he dares to harass me again, make an official complaint and gather witnesses. 4. keep calm and composed in front of people. 5. when he starts speaking to me, not to respond. 6. never treat him like a human, he is not a human being, he is a manipulative person, who is doing brain * * * * ing experiments with me, never expect that he will be humane or nice towards me. He does not care about me and never did. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rtyre2 Posted May 4, 2010 Share Posted May 4, 2010 Don't make yourself look bad by going out of your way to not "treat him like a human". You win in the long run by just being the bigger person and not having a reaction to anything he does.. Live your life and don't worry about what his reaction will be, don't sit back and play in your head how he might act if you run into him. Just live life and do the NC! Easier said than done obviously; but do your best! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
violetka Posted May 4, 2010 Author Share Posted May 4, 2010 sorry but so far I have treated him like human, and he has not responded well - he harassed me and bullied me. From now on for me he is not a human being, whom i can reach emotionally or deal in a normal way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tujna Posted May 4, 2010 Share Posted May 4, 2010 May I join you in this challenge, day 1 for me too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
violetka Posted May 5, 2010 Author Share Posted May 5, 2010 Day two so far so good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
violetka Posted May 14, 2010 Author Share Posted May 14, 2010 Just to report. I am still going strong and not contacting him. I wonder if i should delete him from my chat programs and block him ? He is still in my lists but his presence annoys me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jellysandwich Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 Yes, delete. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sphx26 Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 Yeah delete and block. You don't want any distractions. Hmmm well it's Day 22 for me. Oye! I'm almost at 25%! haha. We can do this! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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