Sweet Girl Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 Hi everyone- Well, my boyfriend and I broke up briefly last week over our lack of communication. We have decided to give "us" another try. We are going to start seeing a marriage and family therapist. Does anyone know if couple's counseling works or not? We've been together for 3 1/2 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IphigeniaSaysHi Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 Counseling can certainly be an invaluable tool in aiding open dialogue and understanding between couples if they are both comfortable with the idea of getting help and willing to be humble and work on whatever roadblocks are uncovered in the process. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thejigsup Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 It works if you play fair and are willing to take it slow and work very hard. If either of you don't want to do that, it doesn't work. Just a reminder, it will take lots of work and will move forward fairly slowly, so you have to hang in there for the long haul. It didn't go bad overnight and you can't fix it overnight, either. Good luck with everything. I hope you make it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kumatora Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 Counseling of any type works only if YOU choose to take the therapist's advice. It does give you a more professional insight. However, it costs a lot of money to go to sessions (I'm talking $150+ a day). I'd only recommend it if you're engaged or are married. If you're just dating... well... how much money do you want to spend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petite Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 I think it an be beneficial if both parties are willing to give it a true and honest go. I would have loved it if my ex wanted to go to couples counseling while we were together. I truly believe it could have helped us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sidehop Posted March 16, 2010 Share Posted March 16, 2010 The third party's input is invaluable but it boils down to how two people understand and accept the situation and make the necessary changes 'together'. My wife and I have in the past for better communication and it was very helpful. It's making the changes at home that are challenging. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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