the_littlest Posted September 23, 2009 Share Posted September 23, 2009 so i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. since i was 15. we are best friends, and he is a great guy. i love him. but i know he isnt the one for me. There isnt even the attraction there was in the beginning. We havent had sex in over 6 months. we are not affectionate, its like were just close cuddly friends. I have been feeling unhappy with this situation for at least a year. i feel i am wasting my time with this "boyfriend". So one night i got really drunk and made out with another guy. it was super awesome to feel wanted and sexy. I admitted what happened to my bf and he forgave me. i told him i want to see other people and he said no. we stayed together. i continued talking with this new guy. we talked about personal stuff like relationships and family and we made out(sober). he was so sweet and he complimented me a lot and made me feel like im just the cutest girl ever. he said he liked me and trusted me, and he was an open book. this new guy knew i was freaked out to be cheating and he was super uncomfortable. we texted a little bit the next day. i called him, but no answer. i texted him but no response. now me and my boyfriend have broken up and i havent heard from the new guy. i cant stop thinking about him. i feel like a * * * * and a loser and i wish he would call me. i miss my bf too. i just want comfort, and i miss seeing my bf all the time. im really confused and hurt. what should i do? what is going on? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pumpkinmoon Posted September 23, 2009 Share Posted September 23, 2009 Maybe you should take some time on your own to figure out what you want. You are very young and have spent a lot of time in a relationship already so maybe you should just focus on being single for a while and having fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted September 23, 2009 Share Posted September 23, 2009 Perhaps he feels that since you cheated on your ex you would likely cheat on him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted September 23, 2009 Share Posted September 23, 2009 I think the "new guy" is seeing the writing on the wall. Since you got involved with him while still in another relationship, he feels that history may repeat itself. Also, this seems to be all about you, and what YOU want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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