absinthe Posted November 11, 2009 Share Posted November 11, 2009 Female - No Never have and never will. I've never even knowingly been involved with a cheater, although I've been cheated on, once. It's easier for me to leave a relationship/marriage, than it would be for me to cheat and not just because I've been cheated on. Cheating to me, is a highly dysfunctional coping tool. Link to comment
Theblueman123 Posted November 11, 2009 Share Posted November 11, 2009 Male - No Cheating in my eyes is worse than murder, it's a betrayal of the heart. Link to comment
Chris Knows Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 Male - Yes. Multiple times Link to comment
yeawutever Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 Cheating in my eyes is worse than murder, it's a betrayal of the heart.Not really, I don't agree with it. Aside from STD's, let's say if that wasn't the case, then one would be left with emotional distress and heartbroken but at least life without worrying about being stab to death with a knife. I would rather get cheated on than get murdered... Link to comment
Sanesoul Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 Female - sadly, yes. Link to comment
WomanWriter Posted December 2, 2009 Share Posted December 2, 2009 I agree with this. I emotionally cheated in a sense...meaning that I lusted after one of my friends and spent time with them too much while I had a crush on them...but I didn't do anything with the person or even tell them how I felt. I told my ex how I felt and cried, prayed, and vowed to let the situation end before it got out of control. So I agree that is a choice. I had to CHOOSE to stop myself from going too far with my friend while I was with my ex fiance. I had to decide that it was NOT what I wanted and that my fiance was more important even though my head was giddy with infatuation towards my friend. Knowing that these things happen (infatuations with other people), I was able to know that my experience was "normal" and that it didn't mean I didn't love my fiance. I realized I was emotionally cheating, though, and decided never to act on my feelings nor to even say anything (to the friend or anyone excepy my fiance and best friend). Well guess what...that person is friends with me again now that I'm single and I feel absolutely nothing for them anymore. No infatuation at all. I wish my ex understood these things too...but I guess infatuation got the best of him and he decided that was more important than us. I'm not saying I'd ever be in a situation where I'd be TEMPTED That's how serious I am. If I had to choose between shooting myself in the foot, vs. cheating on my boyfriend once, I'd choose the shooting myself in the foot. DEAD SERIOUS. Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted December 2, 2009 Share Posted December 2, 2009 Male- Yes and I'm ashamed of it. ](*,) Link to comment
Kaiser_Soze Posted December 2, 2009 Share Posted December 2, 2009 Male - No I have had girlfriends that were not officially exclusive and slept with others though. Link to comment
iceti Posted December 6, 2009 Share Posted December 6, 2009 Male - Yes "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone." - John 8:7 Link to comment
tina-rocks Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 Female- Not in this lifetime or the next or ever for that matter..... Link to comment
jc123 Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 Male-No. Never would. its a disgusting act and no one deserves to be cheated on. Link to comment
ohemgee Posted December 7, 2009 Share Posted December 7, 2009 Male - Sort of emotional cheating Hungout with a female I liked as more than friends while I had a GF. Never did anything, but had it been presented I woulda went for it, but wouldn't have initiated anything. Link to comment
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