Hobbes Posted September 9, 2009 Share Posted September 9, 2009 Hi all - possibly answered before but just wanted to check. This is a totally unwanted break up, I am the dumpee but I will spare you the details. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ButterflyWrists Posted September 9, 2009 Share Posted September 9, 2009 its her responcibility to pick up her mail, not yours to send it to her. However, to stop yourself to get called the jerk, I would scribble the address out and say not at this address and put on her fathers address (IDK if that's possible where you are but it is in the UK) if that's not possible, yeah put in an envelope and post it to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lonewing Posted September 9, 2009 Share Posted September 9, 2009 its her responcibility to pick up her mail, not yours to send it to her. However, to stop yourself to get called the jerk, I would scribble the address out and say not at this address and put on her fathers address (IDK if that's possible where you are but it is in the UK) if that's not possible, yeah put in an envelope and post it to her. Notify the post with a "Change of address" form of her new residence [her dad's address] and put all her mail that you do have in an envelope and send it to dad. Case closed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hobbes Posted September 9, 2009 Author Share Posted September 9, 2009 Yea - will send it (this time around) - less hassle! thanks for sharing your views. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mgirl Posted September 9, 2009 Share Posted September 9, 2009 I would either do what the above person suggested, or write 'return to sender' on it. It isn't your responsibility. She should have it re-directed. PS. Sorry for your break-up... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazyaboutdogs Posted September 9, 2009 Share Posted September 9, 2009 It is her responsibility to have her mail re-directed. This time around you can send it to her just as a courtesy..but I would enclose in the envelope with the letters a note stating that she should get her mail re-directed because any subsequent mail you receive for her will be sent back to the post office with the note "moved". In other words, give her the courtesy once but then make it clear that from now on she deals with her own mail. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hobbes Posted September 9, 2009 Author Share Posted September 9, 2009 Yea I think she has redirected her mail, these are some older ones I messaged her about a few times but no answer. What a nightmare. A month ago I could never dreamt I would be on a forum asking for advice on what to do with her mail that arrived in the mailbox. Truly bizarre. thanks all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimori Posted September 9, 2009 Share Posted September 9, 2009 Meh. I honestly don't think you should re-send it. Primary because it isn't your responsibility and she should have planned for her Mail to be sent elsewhere instead of surprising you with a break up. I'd write on the front of the letters and resend them back to the post office. I'm not anyones personal mail service, her fault. Especially since she doesn't have the common curiosity to answer about something silly like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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