Mishmash Posted September 6, 2009 Share Posted September 6, 2009 What is a bunny boiler? Think Fatal Attraction where the jilted ex boiled the bunny. Revenge, spite, stalker, and all of those other warm, fuzzy feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mishmash Posted September 6, 2009 Share Posted September 6, 2009 What is a bunny boiler? Think Fatal Attraction where the jilted ex boiled the bunny. Revenge, spite, stalker, and all of those other warm, fuzzy feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nightlady Posted September 8, 2009 Share Posted September 8, 2009 Been there...done that. hopefully he can get past it and you get a response! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ammy Posted September 9, 2009 Share Posted September 9, 2009 Gosh I've done this so many times too. Overdone the contact trying to FORCE someone into liking me / replying to me... Always works out of my favour.. Even managed to scare of guys who did genuinely really like me because I was trying to rush things. I always realise AFTER the fact how silly I looked... I have learnt to bite my tongue, hold back, not text or email too often etc etc etc... Thank god these rules don't apply with my friends though. I'm a social person, I love being in contact with the people I care for... But anyway the point is, a lot of us do this... and yes I think in my case too it's cos I'm lonley and bored... and so desperately want some excitement and romance in my life. Ammy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sultana Posted September 9, 2009 Share Posted September 9, 2009 Jue, I totaly understand where you are coming from. I've been making a fool of myself too it's not even funny ( see my post) but hang in there. It's these little things that show us we are afterall just human. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D_Lish Posted September 16, 2009 Share Posted September 16, 2009 I think we do daft things, out of desperation. Desperation for a relationship and to be in one. Some guy/girl comes along that we like and we go all out to try and hang onto it. If we sense we are losing it, we tend to resort to clingy behaviours... It's best to have no expectations at all and when getting to know someone new and just takes things as they come....rather than be planning what colour your wedding dress will be. And if it fails...so what? It just wasnt meant to be and there are plenty more fish in the pond... Thankfully I've never acted desperate for any man. If they want me, they want me...if they dont, then au revoir mon cher. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sultana Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 I think we do daft things, out of desperation. Desperation for a relationship and to be in one. Some guy/girl comes along that we like and we go all out to try and hang onto it. If we sense we are losing it, we tend to resort to clingy behaviours... It's best to have no expectations at all and when getting to know someone new and just takes things as they come....rather than be planning what colour your wedding dress will be. And if it fails...so what? It just wasnt meant to be and there are plenty more fish in the pond... Thankfully I've never acted desperate for any man. If they want me, they want me...if they dont, then au revoir mon cher. LOL @ planning what colour your wedding dress will be. But very good and sounds words. I totally agree! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
christinesee Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 We make fools of ourselves because we are : 1. Bored 2. Lonely 3. Unhappy with our lives Huh? don't agree with you here. I think it's very easy to make a fool of yourself.. when one is blinded with infatuation for another. That does not mean the person is bored, unhappy or lonely! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D_Lish Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 Huh? don't agree with you here. I think it's very easy to make a fool of yourself.. when one is blinded with infatuation for another. That does not mean the person is bored, unhappy or lonely! I think it's true. People wouldnt get so infatuated with another and so easily, if they lived an eventful life and had other things to focus on and preoccupy their minds with....besides a man they may have met online and known for a whole two minutes. Boredom and loneliness can result in people acting desperately and try to cling onto some imagined love affair, that never really was and because this man helped them escape the boredom/loneliness for a while and made us feel wanted and special... It's easy to crush on a man if we are bored and lonely and he pays us attention. Sultana said : LOL @ planning what colour your wedding dress will be Funny, but true.... Is it any wonder that guys will run for the hills!! LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
christinesee Posted September 19, 2009 Share Posted September 19, 2009 It's easy to crush on a man if we are bored and lonely and he pays us attention. And it's easy to crush on a man when one is looking for a Relationship! And that does not mean the person is bored and unhappy with the rest of their life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D_Lish Posted September 19, 2009 Share Posted September 19, 2009 I think people who are looking, are likely even to be more 'desperate' to be in a relationship and cling on to a guy/female... And if you arent bored or lonely, you usually arent looking and because your life is filled with other things to focus on, other than how quick you can bag a man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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