is he too old?

[Casey13]

This guy has issues. That's how old my grandfather was when I was your age. You love him? What possible good can come out of this relationship?? Think about it. Even if this were to last for 10 years (which it won't) but lets assume it did, you would be in your late 20's (prime time of your life) and he would be in a walker, retired, need help crossing the street. People would assume he's your grandfather who you're helping around.

[raejye]

thanks for the comment. it was really helpful. and im glad you helped comment. i'll start looking around for someone my own age.

[raejye]

i was having this feeling that it was wrong.

and i was right. but i just needed someone to um....confrim my feelings were right.

and i did. so thank you.

[Hope75]

i was having this feeling that it was wrong.

and i was right. but i just needed someone to um....confrim my feelings were right.

and i did. so thank you.

 

I'm glad you followed your gut feeling. How did this guy take it?

[raejye]

took it rather well.

he said "he understood" and i said"good"

[trezz]

gut feelings are always a warning sign.

 

well done you for acting on yours.

 

life's a confusing place i dont know what it is about the gut feeling thing but wise people learn to listen as you did.

 

wishing you a happy future.