Gratsy Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 This guy asked me out but then he moved to another city. Now, we're friends who talk on facebook and sometimes on the phone. I dno't think anything romantic could develop b/c of distance/age difference but I was still wondering...is it a bad idea for me to call him and chat ? Don't they say that its bad for girls to call guys? Like it would be a turn off? I have been bored lately and he's a good conversationalist and a good listener... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Casey13 Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Nonsense, if you want to call him then do so! I would like it if a woman called me by surprise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cazmoore Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Call him! It's the 21st century. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hosswhispra Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 This guy asked me out but then he moved to another city. Now, we're friends who talk on facebook and sometimes on the phone. I dno't think anything romantic could develop b/c of distance/age difference but I was still wondering...is it a bad idea for me to call him and chat ? Don't they say that its bad for girls to call guys? Like it would be a turn off? I have been bored lately and he's a good conversationalist and a good listener... If you think of him as a platonic friend-sure call him up. If you think of him romantically, don't call him up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazyaboutdogs Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 If you think of him as a platonic friend-sure call him up. If you think of him romantically, don't call him up. Even if she thought of him romantically she can still call him. There is nothing wrong with a girl calling a guy, especially if they have already talked on the phone before. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gratsy Posted August 25, 2009 Author Share Posted August 25, 2009 I just don't want him to get turned off, though. Like if I call too much or something... As far as romantic, I mean, there was some attraction there, but for various reasons, it really can't go anywhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazyaboutdogs Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 How often do you call other friends. The fact that you are thinking too much about whether or not to call leads me to believe you have more feelings for him than just friendship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chickenjuice Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Go ahead and call him the first time. The problem for women is when they do most of the initiating of phone calls to a boyfriend or a guy they like romantically. It's especially bad when a relationship is ending and the woman keeps calling. But don't be afraid to call him. You might be starting a spark. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hosswhispra Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Even if she thought of him romantically she can still call him. There is nothing wrong with a girl calling a guy, especially if they have already talked on the phone before. Calling a man that you are in an exclusive relationship with is okay. Outside an exclusive committed relationship it may be viewed as being pursuity on the female's part. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gratsy Posted August 25, 2009 Author Share Posted August 25, 2009 There is some interest there. If things were different, I'd probably view him in more than a platonic way, but he's in a different stage in life and is too far away and also is not from the same background. He's fun to talk to though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazyaboutdogs Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Calling a man that you are in an exclusive relationship with is okay. Outside an exclusive committed relationship it may be viewed as being pursuity on the female's part. So, what? Why should it be up to the man to call all the time. Honestly, many women are having make-out sessions with a guy on the first date and are ready to drop their pants/lift their skirt by the third date and yet get so hung up about whether or not to call a guy lest they give him the wrong message! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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