redmen1607306431 Posted May 17, 2002 Share Posted May 17, 2002 Have not long finished a 12 month relationship with a girl, to cut a long story short, she felt that I wasn't the one for her, fair enough, life is never a bed of roses, so we parted. About a month before we spilt I was at her house one evening, we were talking and I noticed a copy of a magazine, one of the lead articles was 'The Farmer wants a Wife', a UK TV comapny made a series out of it last year for lonely farmers looking for love, sticking out from the top of was a letter she had written, addressed to one of the farmers featured in the magazine, I did not say anything at the time. Since going our separate ways she has been ringing me, texting me every single day, I resorted to not answering her calls, when I asked her why she kept trying to contact me she responded by saying that she didnt want to end contact between us just like that, I can see her point however it felt like she was chasing me, almost as if she didn't want to lose me, when I confronted her with this she immediately backed off, I thought that I had managed to explain myself properly as she didnt contact me for about a week, then a few weeks she knocked at the door, reason why, she had noticed that I had a new pair of curtains in the living room!, I didnt let her in and kept the conversation short, 3 days later she sent me a text, asking why I didn't let her in. I didn't respond to this text, later on that week she sent me a letter asking why I had not rung her recently etc, I emailed her back to say that I knew she had written to the magazine etc and I felt let down by her actions and that I felt that being friends now was not on the menu. I am not sure whether I still want to be friends with her or not, I miss her very much and I know that she misses me as well, I sent her a text message 2 night's ago asking if she wanted to meet up and have a chat but she never replied, is it worth trying to make a go of it or walk away for good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamurj Posted May 27, 2002 Share Posted May 27, 2002 Sorry, but you should walk away for good. I let this kind of stuff go on for 15 YEARS, and it just made me miserable -- and I ended up having to walk away for good. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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