seren Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 anyone ever felt like they needed 'one last' sexual enounter with their ex for closure? Link to comment
tastytoothpaste Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 There have been a lot of threads like this. Most people agree and say it's fine, but I never think it's a good idea. It just prolongs the process of getting over it. Link to comment
Speranza Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 I studied a great Italian book at Uni, called 'La Coscienza di Zeno', '(Zeno's Conscience' or 'The last Cigarette'). This guy was giving up smoking, but every time he allowed himself one last cigarette. Because he knew it was going to be his last one, it always tasted so good that he just couldn't quit after all... I'm sure there was more to it than that, but the moral stuck in my mind!! Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 ^ oh, that's a smart post. Closure sex only works if it's painful. I've not felt the need for it, but it's happened unintentionally. Trying to feel close while at the same time tearing apart. It's agony! And like smoking (non smoker who used to smoke a pack a day!)....so so easy to get lulled into the morbid romance of it. When you see it for what it is, it makes you wince to even think about it. Link to comment
seren Posted June 29, 2009 Author Share Posted June 29, 2009 so there is such a thing as closure sex? some people do actually feel the need for this for closure? and i like the example of smoking. knowing its your last one, give you chance to enjoy it and remember it etc..... what did you mean by you cringe when you see it for what it is, what do you mean by see it for what it is? do you mean the end? Link to comment
In the Dark Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 It depends I suppose. . . How each other feels. Especially when there is alot of I don't know up in the air. The one last dance may end up not being just that. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 i never needed it, but i have done it. just makes the girl get more feelings again sometimes. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 anyone ever felt like they needed 'one last' sexual enounter with their ex for closure? it is a sick idea Link to comment
Mutley Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 it is a sick idea The heart wants what the heart wants. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 what did you mean by you cringe when you see it for what it is, what do you mean by see it for what it is? do you mean the end? I can only speak for myself. See it for what it is - just a last romp in the sack that is kind of desperate and sad. It was like waking up from a dream or something, the dream of sharing a life with that person. Guess it depends what feelings each person brings to the situation. Link to comment
Kantriakhor Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 The heart wants what the heart wants. The heart or the sex-organ? Link to comment
Mutley Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 The heart or the sex-organ? Is there a difference? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 i think he means the heart of the sex organ. Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 i wouldnt say its for closure but for one last kick depending if it was good sex or not. Otherwise i would be inclined to say it would be a bad idea for old feelings may arise. Link to comment
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