EQD Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 How many of you were 'accidents'? or had an accident? (meaning conceived without intention) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ButterflyWrists Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 I'm a bad accident. so was my brother lol. I think all the kids in my family were.. hmm trend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SapphireNoir10 Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 I was earlier than expected, my parents had booked a wedding and my mum was half way through her pregnancy when she married, my sister was carefully planned. I was talking about this today, for the first time I realised im old enough that If i got pregnant by accident I could look after it. Weird! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EQD Posted May 19, 2009 Author Share Posted May 19, 2009 me and my SO are accidents. my mom had severe PID, they said she couldnt concieve and then she proceeded to have me and my brother. not on purpose though. my SO was concieved many years after his mom's tubes were tied. just when they thought they were safe.. heehee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lionel Hutz Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 Mom 17 dad 24, I just found out he slept with my "aunt" and I also had an older brother from a past relationship. I dont think I was planned at all. Im totaly flexing on life considering I should be a "waste of space" Its empowering! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocio Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 I was planned. My mom had cervical cancer and was told she should not try to have another child for a period of time. The night the doctor told her she could start trying again was the night I was conceived. ...or so the story goes. Our child was not planned. But some things are just too good to be planned. The best things always happen when you're planning for other things! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jengh Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 I was an accident for my birth mom, but I was adopted. She had me when she was 15. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Call of The Zombie Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 I'm an accident and my mother almost died in child birth. She says it was the only time in my entire life when I've been in a hurry to do anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Binoo Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 My parents tried for years to concieve me. I'll bet they're kicking themselves for that now! Mwahaha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
waveseer Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 Mine is not a common story, I am the third of three planned births (and my mom was second of three planned births) and I went on to have three planned births. Is it any wonder that my favorite number is 3 or 9? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrunetteBarbie Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 I was planned..... all of my 3 siblings were (well, only 2 siblings now) - one of my friends was a "cruise" accident,her mom was on holiday in Phillippines and had a one nighter with some random guy and 9 months later, there she was.... But Im so glad about it! Its funny how coincidences determine a human person life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yellowcal Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 I was planned (my brother was not, LOL).. My son wasn't planned but am glad it happened These two were planned but didn't expect it to happen so soon. Excited either way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EQD Posted May 19, 2009 Author Share Posted May 19, 2009 I was planned (my brother was not, LOL).. My son wasn't planned but am glad it happened These two were planned but didn't expect it to happen so soon. Excited either way. i'm so glad for you yellow, you sound like you are in a much better place mentally than where you were. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yellowcal Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 i'm so glad for you yellow, you sound like you are in a much better place mentally than where you were. Thanks and yes, things are much better now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetta Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 I was a planned and loved child but due to ovarian cysts thought I was unable to conceive and my son was an accident, not a good one but maybe in the future he'll surprise me. My daughter however was planned and it really makes a difference in how you parent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EQD Posted May 19, 2009 Author Share Posted May 19, 2009 Thanks and yes, things are much better now. and i love your sig! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnightrambler Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 i am the product of a loving marriage Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
girl friend Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 i was planned, my parents tried for years. my mum had me aged 45. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sky-Cherries Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 There's no 'I had an accident and I regret it' option. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scorpion Fury Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 I was a planned and loved child but due to ovarian cysts thought I was unable to conceive and my son was an accident, not a good one but maybe in the future he'll surprise me. My daughter however was planned and it really makes a difference in how you parent. So, you parent your daughter differently than your son because she was planned? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 I was a planned and loved child but due to ovarian cysts thought I was unable to conceive and my son was an accident, not a good one but maybe in the future he'll surprise me. My daughter however was planned and it really makes a difference in how you parent. ouchies. so the daughter makes the balance of the two kids worth it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 i'm not sure if i was planned, i really don't care to know. my parents had sex and i was born. i've been loved since, so i don't really need to ever ask. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alezia Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 My mom waited 4 years before being able to be blessed with my miraculous birth I did have an accident baby =) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nixee Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 I was an accident and a bastard child .. BUT... my parents did the whole "so uh... we kinda went and had a kid... wanna get hitched?" thing... and they are still happily married today. Retired and traveling a lot even, and haven't even killed each other. My older half brother, I'm assuming was a surprise as well. And my younger brother... pretty sure he was wanted, yet not tried for specifically. I don't really ask these questions though. .... There is no category for "had an unhappy accident" or "an accident you didn't get to keep" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetta Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 Yes I have parented them differently because I wasn't happy about becoming a mom at 21, when I became one and I was more distant. He calls me mom for example she still calls me mama. Plus he's special needs and very hard to manage, smart, helpful in a ruins stuff kind of way, but he tries. I love them both but I tend to favor her she's docile in comparison so much easier. I've learned how to parent better in the interim is part of it. I'm better about teaching rather than expecting certain behaviors. He's 13 she's 6. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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