stephla Posted May 11, 2009 Author Share Posted May 11, 2009 ok i get it!!! i just don't get it why he doesn't talk to me about it!? it's just not the right way! he's lying and doing it secretly. (if it is true, which i'll find out after i talk to him.) but i guess i got what i deserved. though i thought we excluded the possibility of a threesome a long time ago. he brought it up in a sneaky way. but how can it be? just recently we've talked how threesomes with 2 girls and 1 guy don't do much for him. just like any sex with more people involved. now what!? i don't want none of this! excuse me for saying but the girl is not even good looking. (but even if she was!) i guess he doesn't care? oh just how to make all this stop!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IMAbadman Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Talk to him. Communicate. Why not start there? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FarthestEdge Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Well, there IS the possibility that we could be wrong. I just think if it walks like a duck... The way to stop it is to have an open dialogue with him...Tell him you just want to be sure there's no misunderstandings, given the conversations in the past. Tell him you wouldn't want anyone to get hurt, be offended, or angry because of a misunderstanding of intent. btw- is she coming to stay with the two of you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stephla Posted May 11, 2009 Author Share Posted May 11, 2009 Well, there IS the possibility that we could be wrong. I just think if it walks like a duck... btw- is she coming to stay with the two of you? no i don't think so. at least as far as i know, he didn't say a thing about it. i know you're all just saying your opinion. it's ok, that's what i'm here for, thanks. i just have to say i think it's completely insane if he is planing it behind my back. we both agreed we don't want an open relationship. so if he is doing it, it's a strong reason for me to dump him, a violation of trust. though it's already done at some point. but i won't rush it, it could all be a misunderstanding. so yes i'll talk to him as soon as i get the chance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IMAbadman Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 By your posts you don't even know what he's doing and/or if he is even planning anything. Talk to the guy. Skip all the drama and fantasy over what you THINK might be happening. Talk to the guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FarthestEdge Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 By your posts you don't even know what he's doing and/or if he is even planning anything. Talk to the guy. Skip all the drama and fantasy over what you THINK might be happening. Talk to the guy. ^^^^ the best advice..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IMAbadman Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 ^^^^ the best advice..... Can I get an AMEN... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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