Where do I go from here . . .

[Beaver]

The situation has been resolved.

[Keyman]

In my opinion, once a cheater, always a cheater... And there must have been a reason buried somewhere that she would suddenly turn to her ex boyfriend. You wouldn't imagine this happening to someone that was totally committed (even though it probably does sometimes).

 

The Long Distance on top of it, seems hard and with her pulling away. One side of me says to just ride it out for a little while longer and see how things go, ultimately until you move to her city. The other side says that things are starting to break down now, so begin making plans to separate sooner rather than later. The good old adage, quit while you're ahead may be of good use here...

 

It really comes down to whether you think you can save it. If you are having issues with trust, you may have to understand that you may never get them back. There was a reason behind it, and perhaps it's time to move on.

[Beaver]

are they way in which I could do a better job of rebuilding my trust while remaining in the relationship?