Nkaleidoscopic Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 Everyone I meet is either kind of dismissive of me or too interested in me if you get the point (I am taken!) Also, I CANNOT talk to girls. I just dont know what to talk about. With guys, its just natural for me. And they end up wanting to date me. I dont know if I want friends, but I think it would be healthy for me to have friends other than my SO, just to hang out with every now and then. I know people from school .. but alot of them went away from college, and the ones that didnt (younger than me) seem to have their own little social circles. I would like to go out for a taco with some girls every now and then, or just someone to talk to (not an online person). I have varied interests and always like trying new things. But girls just arent into me. Everyone seems to already have a best friend. Is there a place I can go to try to make a friend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SomeRandom Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 I wish I can help you but I have the same problem too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eleveness Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 I'm afraid I'll have to echo SomeRandom's response in that I also have the same problem meeting girls. The reason why is because extremely few people share my interests (philosophy and mathematical logic). But if I did find a girl, that's what I'd talk about: metaphysics, epistemology and modus ponens. And that's just it: When you do find a girl, talk about what you want to talk about: the things that interest you. If she shares your interests, you two will spend hours talking about the things you want to talk about. As far as "a place I can go to try to make a friend", I haven't a clue. Sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nkaleidoscopic Posted May 9, 2009 Author Share Posted May 9, 2009 I tried craigslist but all I get is creeps Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugabug001 Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 I have trouble making friends cause I tend to freeze up when meeting people at first and I dont know what to say..Recently I joined a yahoo group called penfriends where you can get email pals {same as a pen pal} It has been working out really well..I have met alot of interesting people from all over..Maybe give it a try.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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