Double J Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 We've seen it in the movies: A man and woman slap each other back and forth before shoving their tongues passionately down each other's neck. Those are just movies. Personally, I've found that my girlfriend suddenly becomes friskier and more interested in sex after the following: (1) We get into a heated argument (2) I put her in her place for doing something wrong/inappropriate Do these things set off some sort of sensor in women? Are you ladies more drawn to your men sexually when they display this "I'm not taking your BS" sort of attitude? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamwarrior Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 We've seen it in the movies: A man and woman slap each other back and forth before shoving their tongues passionately down each other's neck. Those are just movies. Personally, I've found that my girlfriend suddenly becomes friskier and more interested in sex after the following: (1) We get into a heated argument (2) I put her in her place for doing something wrong/inappropriate Do these things set off some sort of sensor in women? Are you ladies more drawn to your men sexually when they display this "I'm not taking your BS" sort of attitude? If a guy stands up to me then it will turn me on and if he hits me or degrades me in any way then he had better stay away from me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laisla Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 no. i want people to leave me alone when i am angry. i don't want to be touched at all. a while after i calm down though, makeup sex is GREAT. my bf is the opposite. he gets turned on when i am angry even if it's just for a little tiny thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeckyllNHyde Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 I wish I could say I felt friskier after we have had an argument but I'm not really one to forget easy lol. It takes a while and the issue has to be resolved. Then again we never really get into "heated" arguments. Just disagreements when it comes to point of views and opinions, which we calmly talk out. Nothing sexy about it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna. Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 I do, cause he would let me slap him during sex. It was like my way to get the frustration out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
waveseer Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 I'm more interested in sex when we are interacting in pretty much any way. It doesn't matter who's "winning". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CAgirl Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 No, not at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thejigsup Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 If he even tries to touch me after we have been arguing, he'll be missing two of his closest friends. I hate arguing and leave men who argue with me. I will discuss differences, but I will never argue with a man, ever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamwarrior Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 I do, cause he would let me slap him during sex. It was like my way to get the frustration out. hahhaaaaaaaaaaaaaa that is to funny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrazyKing Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 I know a few girls who like that kind of games where she's shouting at you, sometimes even slapping you, and then she'd be willing to have sex or do some dry stuff... I don't get it and I hate it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dragon lady Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Definitely not. I like us to be on good terms for sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Nope. Not into that. If he hits me, he's dead. Never been yelled at nor hit nor swore at nor disrespected in any way. And it's staying like that. Now, after we make up and everything is good. It's great to make out to show that you are both moved on from the disagreement. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duckie198100 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Never hitting, but when we've resolved a conflict, the sex after is the hottest ever. I think it's more because we realise that our love and attraction to each other is way more important than some silly disagreement. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BellaDonna Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 After an argument? No way. To me feeling angry, resentful, hurt, sad, disgusted, or upset about something is the biggest turn off ever and I just want to be left alone. The brain is the most powerful sexual organ and mine does not think sexually if other things are going on. I don't believe in the concept of "make-up" sex. Things have to be going well overall for sex to go well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metrogirl Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Can't stand him when he wants to argue, would despise him if he tried anything sexual afterward. I think he knows me well enough to not even go there with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quirky Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 We've seen it in the movies: A man and woman slap each other back and forth before shoving their tongues passionately down each other's neck. Those are just movies. Personally, I've found that my girlfriend suddenly becomes friskier and more interested in sex after the following: (1) We get into a heated argument (2) I put her in her place for doing something wrong/inappropriate Do these things set off some sort of sensor in women? Are you ladies more drawn to your men sexually when they display this "I'm not taking your BS" sort of attitude? Yes that works for me as well but it also depends on the situation. The message it sends off is assertiveness/confidence- a trait very attractive in both men and women. Says "I know where I stand, what my boundaries are, what I believe in and you better deal with it" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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