relationships need effort?

[seren]

Can a relationship work without effort? do all relationshisp require effort or should they be easy??

 

does every single rship really require effort or do u think some are just so easy

[Sn0man]

ALL relationships require effort from both parties. No good thing comes easy.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Every relationship requires effort. The good ones don't feel like effort though.

 

In order to be healthy, you must make an effort to be respectful, see things from their point of view, think outside yourself and view things 3rd person, put thought into your words and actions, and many other things.

 

But, when you're with someone really good, most of the time the effort is quite enjoyable. You WANT to do things to make your partner happy. And you want to do things that are healthy for the couple and the individual.

 

However, sometimes even the good ones, you have to do work when times are rough that put you in 2nd place. As long as the good outweighs the bad, it's worth it.

[_Asti_]

Of course they require effoirt.

They require communication and compromise, and they require that both people be committed and contribute to the relationship.

It takes effort to make things happen, and during hard times, tough times, down times, effort really comes into play. There will be times when the effort may be more than what you thought would be needed..

 

But like mentioned above..the effort shouldn't be tiring and exhausting. The effort is rewarding. You essentially get back what you give in a relationship, and its not WORK. Its EFFORT.