ostego Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 Hi, So... i've been sexually active for around 6 months or so. The GF is on the pill, and we've had sex maybe 40-60 times to far. Each time.... i can only last for maybe 20-30 seconds before... you know what! I was told that with experience... ill learn to control it. But there hasnt been any improvement in the 50, lets call it, times that we have had sex! it really is getting annoying, because i really want to last longer and please her more, but there's just nothing i can do to stop it!! I'm 17, going on 18. People told me a while back that with time... it would gradually last longer. But most of my friends can go for 10-15 minutes or so.... i feel so ashamed! Is there ANYTHING i could do to make myself last even 2 or 3 minutes!! Just something more worthwhile!?!?!!?!? PLEASE help!! We're quite close, so it's not wrecking the relationship.... but it truly does kill me on the inside at how short i last, and how she would obviously rather it werent all over so quick! this is the last chance before i order some damn viagra or something! thanks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
diabolik Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 How long do you last in round 2? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xSerendipityx Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 Have you thought or tried her giving you oral first and making you orgasm, then switching to her as you wait for yourself to cool down a bit. Round 2- intercourse. You might be able to last longer the second orgasm around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nixee Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 Do you go for a round 2 or 3? Have you tried starting and then stopping before you climax? Do you regularly masturbate and have decent control over things in that arena? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CallingAllAngels Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 You're too young.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roberto34 Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 You're too young.... What?????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roberto34 Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 News flash - it's the 21st century To the OP - maybe "rub one out" on your own before meeting up with her. Even before the 21st Century, they were doing it "this young" all throughout history. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CallingAllAngels Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 News flash - it's the 21st century To the OP - maybe "rub one out" on your own before meeting up with her. LMAO......"rub one out"???????? OMG!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xSerendipityx Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 You're too young.... I bet you're VERY open minded, eh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CallingAllAngels Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 I bet you're VERY open minded, eh? I try to be responsible....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beautiful Nightmare Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 Have you tried the stop-and-go method? Once you get close to climaxing, stop. Don't move until the excitement wears off a bit. Then start again. Keep doing this and eventually your endurance should increase. Doing this while masturbating should help too. It may take awhile to finally last as long as you want, so it'll take a bit of patience. But I've heard this method works well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xSerendipityx Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 I try to be responsible....... I understand the "responsible" thing, but he came here for help, not to be judged. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CallingAllAngels Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 I understand the "responsible" thing, but he came here for help, not to be judged. I'm not judging anyone hon...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mr_iwi Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 You're too young.... No he's not. Check his age and location. You are mistaken. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meepmeep20 Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 change positions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CallingAllAngels Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 No he's not. Check his age and location. You are mistaken. I thought I was mistaken once....turned out I was wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nixee Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 I thought I was mistaken once....turned out I was wrong. *snicker* Well... I didn't see much judgement... I just figured.... 17 is average for sexual activity, and also fairly common to not have much stamina and control built up yet. I don't think there is any reason to feel bad, but I think there is plenty of time and room for improvement. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CallingAllAngels Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 *snicker* Well... I didn't see much judgement... I just figured.... 17 is average for sexual activity, and also fairly common to not have much stamina and control built up yet. I don't think there is any reason to feel bad, but I think there is plenty of time and room for improvement. ................ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
90_hour_sleep Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 for the stop and go method... when you stop...form a ring around the base with your thumb and index finger...apply pressure (sort of the sensation a c**k ring would provide)... this is a good way to put a stop to the gravy boat. obviously...you have to do that before you reach 'critical mass'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1WayTicket2Norway Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 slowing down would probably work the best i think, put more time into foreplay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hear_her_roar Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 It sounds silly, but my guy friends and exes swear by masturbating regularly to help increase their stamina. I agree with the above posters as well... perhaps having her cause you to cum before sex would be beneficial, it could work since you're so young you probably won't have a problem getting it up again right away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doyathink Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 a good way to put a stop to the gravy boat. Oh my GOD! I'm eating thick chocolate....almost made the gag reflex go off after reading THAT! YUCK! lol Anyway...OP, Practice makes perfect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sophie84 Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 Use condoms (I'm assuming you don't already since you mentioned your girlfriend is on the pill). It'll make the sensation less intense, but you'll last longer as a result... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrazyKing Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 Don't think about sex during sex and try pausing... Also try doing lots of foreplay/fingering/oral to make her come before you start... Plus viagra will only give you a boner and heart problems, but you'd come fast anyway (as much as I know), lol... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TechResQ Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 Don't think about sex during sex and try pausing... Also try doing lots of foreplay/fingering/oral to make her come before you start... Plus viagra will only give you a boner and heart problems, but you'd come fast anyway (as much as I know), lol... I've heard this! Try thinking about baseball or football...name teams in your head, or name players... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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