miracle29 Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Anyone can answer this from their preference but I'm a woman so I have to come from my view here. Now I'm single by choice but I remember the best sex I have ever had was with a man who moaned and made noise during sex. This drove me wild. On the flip side its a real turn off to me when a man is quiet. Am I the only one who feels like this or do some of you prefer silence? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
purpleduckie Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 lol i used to say that too... then i met my ex. he made the weirdest noise i've ever heard in my entire life when he blew. silence is sometimes golden. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
havefaith Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Seems like this thread keeps coming up... women always like the sounds. My boyfriend is pretty quiet in the sack. I hinted to him that I too like some sound, and he rather discreetly told me he was kind of embarassed to make noise, like he thought the sound of a women is sexy but those of a man are just... awkward and not sexy. Which I disagree with. But maybe a lot of men are self-conscious like that? Afraid of sounding wimpy or something? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I definitely prefer sound but the amount of privacy doesn't allow it. We hold back a lot... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lamour detruit Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I don't see how its even possible to stay quiet during sex. the moans, growls,whimpers, groans are all a part of the movements that come with it. Albeit it can be a turn on when you have to try and be as quite as possible, and you try to let those sounds out by biting in their flesh instead. Of course it depends on your comfort level, but it is a turn on to hear both making moans of need while being overwhelmed together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProtestTheHero Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 A lot of it has to do with just anatomy too I guess. I mean, orgasms and sex in general feels great, but it's not "OMG I CAN BARELY CONTAIN MY MOANS OF PLEASURE" great. It's not anything I haven't felt 200+ times before. I am just assuming that women feel something more intense because the reactions seem to be a lot different. Unless you mean dirty talk, but that's not exactly "noise." I don't make a whole lot of "noise." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
konstantine Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I will admit, I do like to hear my boyfriend's heavy breathing and quiet "Oh my gods" when we are having sex. It's hot. I don't need to be hearing any grunting or anything though. I make very little noise during sex. I will make a little noise here and there, maybe say a couple things, but that's about it. Sometimes I'm so quiet that I have had an orgasm and my boyfriend doesn't believe me because he thinks I was too quiet. Once he was like "What are you, a nun?" Haha. But I don't know, I feel awkward making a TON of noise. Maybe I'll try it some time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnightrambler Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 sometimes i clear my throat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProtestTheHero Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 sometimes i clear my throat lol, awesome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaBladeRoden Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 it comes from years of training to orgasm quietly I think. That and I'm a quiet person in general Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lana111 Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 i def like the noise, doesnt have to be over the top, but at least something! i like to hear a moan or a cry of pleasure total silence is odd. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lana111 Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 sometimes i clear my throat that is hot! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaBladeRoden Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 is growling hot? sometimes I growl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Portage Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I think it depends on your comfort level with your partner. The more comfy i am the more open i am...noises included. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sosilver Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I think it depends on your comfort level with your partner. The more comfy i am the more open i am...noises included. I am the same way...I like talking/sounds... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnightrambler Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I think it depends on your comfort level with your partner. The more comfy i am the more open i am...noises included. are you more comfy on the couch or in the bed? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Portage Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I am the same way...I like talking/sounds... ditto...it sets the mood most definitely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaiser_Soze Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Damn, I better get on this! I have been pretty quiet because I didn't feel manly making all kinds of noise. I might talk dirty and my gf loves that, but it looks like I better step it up a notch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Portage Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 are you more comfy on the couch or in the bed? i prefer both above over the kitchen floor. The sound of the fridge opening doesn't count as mood setting noise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 is growling hot? sometimes I growl I like growling a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnightrambler Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 i prefer both above over the kitchen floor. The sound of the fridge opening doesn't count as mood setting noise. what about the running dishwasher? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miracle29 Posted April 16, 2009 Author Share Posted April 16, 2009 HELLO! That's what I'm screaming! I love this response! I don't see how its even possible to stay quiet during sex. the moans, growls,whimpers, groans are all a part of the movements that come with it. Albeit it can be a turn on when you have to try and be as quite as possible, and you try to let those sounds out by biting in their flesh instead. Of course it depends on your comfort level, but it is a turn on to hear both making moans of need while being overwhelmed together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IphigeniaSaysHi Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 I do porn noises just because I'm not getting anything from it. It's a turn on to hear myself. LOL But what I cannot stand is hearing my name or saying someone's name. SO CHEESY. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miracle29 Posted April 16, 2009 Author Share Posted April 16, 2009 There is just something about hearing a man moan during sex that heightens my pleasure during intimacy. I'm not quiet I'm sensual and moan a lot if he is too quiet that turns me off. If he grunts uh ... Lol I think that would be off! Clearing his throat oh baby who could resist! Can any hear the sarcasm here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miracle29 Posted April 16, 2009 Author Share Posted April 16, 2009 I am so with you on that! One of the best things I've heard a few times is "oh baby its so tight and wet" that sends me over! I do porn noises just because I'm not getting anything from it. It's a turn on to hear myself. LOL But what I cannot stand is hearing my name or saying someone's name. SO CHEESY. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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