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Which do you prefer...(another looks vs. personality poll)


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Which would you rather date in the opposite sex (or same sex if it applies)?  

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  1. 1. Which would you rather date in the opposite sex (or same sex if it applies)?

    • Sweetness/personality - 9/10, looks - 10/10
      9
    • Sweetness/personality - 10/10, looks - 9/10
      43


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i have no reference to what a 9 vs a 10 means. Although it doesnt matter what you look like, its just the inner confidence you have that attracks people, beautiful people just have a easier time finding that person inside them

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The point of making it so high isn't completely relevant - I just wanted people to imagine their ideal person personality wise and looks-wise, the ideal for each person being 10/10. So take the hottest guy/girl you can think of and the sweetest person with the best personality you can think of. I figured I'd make it a little tougher to decide by only having a difference by an increment of one, but alas, I guess that kinda flopped. People will go way further down on looks for a better personality. Good to see.

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Why be with someone if they look fantastic but have a no personality. That's what blow up dolls are for haha. But I suppose 9/10 isn't exactly no personality...

 

yea 9/10 on personality is still really good. it's definitely dateable. but i would rather have a 10/10, someone who is perfect for me, than someone who just looks perfect for me but are lacking in personality.

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i have no reference to what a 9 vs a 10 means.

 

LOL...exactly. I had no idea that it was all so scientific. If you would go no lower than a 6/10 for looks....how do you know when someone gets there? Is there a chart or something? Or are you just guessing?

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i have no reference to what a 9 vs a 10 means. Although it doesnt matter what you look like, its just the inner confidence you have that attracks people, beautiful people just have a easier time finding that person inside them

 

i would like to add the word *might*

because you can be physically appealing and have 0 confidence.

and that person inside of them isnt always 'wonderful'

spiritually attractive or unattractive we all live on the same playing feild.. same potential imo.

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LOL...exactly. I had no idea that it was all so scientific. If you would go no lower than a 6/10 for looks....how do you know when someone gets there? Is there a chart or something? Or are you just guessing?

 

 

^ it's just a personal approximation.

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LOL...exactly. I had no idea that it was all so scientific. If you would go no lower than a 6/10 for looks....how do you know when someone gets there? Is there a chart or something? Or are you just guessing?

 

6 is like not terribly attractive but slightly more so than the average person. the average person evokes no real feelings or thought of 'ugly' or 'pretty' to look at.

its a complex equation that runs like a background program on a computer... involves alot of "0's and 1's" and even a few 2's just because we have that extra human dimension.

Physical attraction is yet another measure of human compatability

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^ it's just a personal approximation.

 

But how do you reference it? How do you think "he's a 5"....or do you even think that? I can't imagine ever thinking that...do people really have a number ranking in their head?

 

I just react...attractive vs not attractive?

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But how do you reference it? How do you think "he's a 5"....or do you even think that? I can't imagine ever thinking that...do people really have a number ranking in their head?

 

I just react...attractive vs not attractive?

 

I would think:

 

1- ugliest you've ever seen

2-average

3-most physically attractive you've ever seen

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But how do you reference it? How do you think "he's a 5"....or do you even think that? I can't imagine ever thinking that...do people really have a number ranking in their head?

 

I just react...attractive vs not attractive?

 

that's what i meant by personal. like EQD said, a 5 is an "average" person that you can't say is unattractive nor attractive. to me someone who is a 6 is attractive in some ways but not someone who i'd be staring at when i first meet them.

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I would think:

 

1- ugliest you've ever seen

2-average

3-most physically attractive you've ever seen

More like that for me. I think I maybe have 4 graduations. But this 9/10 vs 10/10 stuff seems a bit too micro for me. I think maybe with such rankings we are not seeing the forest for all the trees.
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