Big Jim Posted February 12, 2009 Share Posted February 12, 2009 Hi, I am 24 and currently quite conflicted. I really want to move out and be on my own, I really feel that I need it. However, my mom died a couple years back and now my father is alone. I have a good relationship with him now, but we are very different and he is in his 70s. He is pretty isolated and I know he really enjoys having me around the house for both the company and to help out with chores etc. I really do not know what to do; I know a common response will be "it is your life you need to live it", and I understand that completely I am just really really confused... thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radίaηce Posted February 12, 2009 Share Posted February 12, 2009 Living on your own is a huge and wonderful step, but missing out on the one's you love and not spending time whether you are different or a lot a like, might leave you with lots of regret. If you can find a way to manage moving out AND still being a good part of your father's life, i say go for it. If you feel that it will only leave him neglected...maybe you can wait a bit longer. You don't need to fill a void in his life, but don't cause moving out to make him feel void. With this economy...i WISH i still lived at home! Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lost1607307474 Posted February 12, 2009 Share Posted February 12, 2009 Is it possible that you could move close by to where he is and so you would be able to visit him often? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radίaηce Posted February 12, 2009 Share Posted February 12, 2009 Is it possible that you could move close by to where he is and so you would be able to visit him often? excellent suggestion! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Jim Posted February 12, 2009 Author Share Posted February 12, 2009 Thanks for the quick replies, I really appreciate it! Very good suggestions. I have thought about that and perhaps that is the route to go. Money wise it makes sense to stick around home for a while longer, and by no means it is bad at home. It is just frustrating sometimes. Tough issues to consider lol, thank you for your suggestions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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