LAYAAN Posted December 25, 2008 Author Share Posted December 25, 2008 good luck. thank you for being sarcastic. that helps! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LAYAAN Posted December 25, 2008 Author Share Posted December 25, 2008 I can't believe this is happening again... honestly Tinu, where do you find such nut cases? there was another guy that sent you love songs right? Have you even met this guy in person yet? I do not understand how this guy is already behaving like he is your boyfriend... If he is this way now imagine how he would be when he actually becomes your boyfriend I'm hanging in there. My EH subscription is gonna end n I'm not gonna renew it. I'm getting in touch with their customer service to see how I can pull down my profile. These men were matched with me on EH and they initiated it, not me. I made it clear to him that we are just talking, he said we are courting ](*,). I said "No, we are not. You are under wrong impression." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LAYAAN Posted December 25, 2008 Author Share Posted December 25, 2008 it's not that grym. it's more the fact that tinu is giving him the benefit of the doubt even through all the I'm not. As soon as he told me that he has someone else also, I stopped talking to him. How am I giving him the benefit of doubt? I'm simply trying not to provoke him and get myself out of a bad situation. I'm in a vulnerable position here. If he comes to my department, I know our stupid secretary will escort him to my room. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LAYAAN Posted December 25, 2008 Author Share Posted December 25, 2008 the pattern can only be due to one thing. tinu needs to look at the signs more and move on. help me see! educate me. I told you I'm new to dating. Its been only few months that I've been on EH. I really am trying to learn and follow the advice given here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LAYAAN Posted December 25, 2008 Author Share Posted December 25, 2008 I agree ghost. She is ignoring very glaring signs early on. And getting too attached to guys she has not met yet. I'm not attached, otherwise I would be there with him at this time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LAYAAN Posted December 25, 2008 Author Share Posted December 25, 2008 The "if you love someone set them free" saying is more for people who were in love or really love someone, and for whatever reason - either that person left or they just can't make it work - then you set them free. The saying is that if they left you and find you really were the one, they'll come back. I don't think in the case of a man you talked to online it applies, because tinu, you are not in love with this man you hardly know....isn't that pretty doubtful? Ya, plz don't take literal meaning of it. Its my mistake to post under this heading. I realized it later on. I tried but couldn't change the title on forums page. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grymoire Posted December 25, 2008 Share Posted December 25, 2008 Tinu, regardless of who initiated contact the moment a guy talks/behaves in a certain way you got to terminate everything. Just say "we are not a good match" and move on the next guy. The signs are there.. in this guy's case he is expecting you to be jealous of him when you both are not in a relationship. Imagine what all things he may expect/demand if you were actually in a relationship with him. He is making demands when he does not have any right. You owe him nothing. What surprises me though is I thought EH is a pretty decent site. But you are consistently encountering one weirdo after another. I think going forward you should try different dating sites and also try to meet men through parties or through your friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted December 26, 2008 Share Posted December 26, 2008 help me see! educate me. I told you I'm new to dating. Its been only few months that I've been on EH. I really am trying to learn and follow the advice given here. we are giving advice right now. look at your OP on this thread. there are some signs in there. other things you post are other signs. you need to remember them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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