Ladies is a guy not being EXPRESSIVE in a email when first meeting you a big deal?

[george237]

Great advice but you have a better chance of hitting the powerball then this guy actually using it.

[boo121]

Email is still communication. If you do not sound interesting in email, then they are going to definetly not think you are going to be worth seeing in person.

 

Yes but you've completely missed my point

[Jess2006]

They are screening questions, much like im sure you have in your job. As a careers advisor i imagine you ask your clients questions to narrow down a particular catagory of job.

 

if you answer these questions like "what do you do for a living?" and you reply with "ass model" or "shoe salesman" you're more likely to get an email back!

 

 

No, sorry, but I don't think this is the case. Email IS the first form of communication with online dating. And I would be really put off if someone was sending emails like that. I did a lot of online dating before, and I would always write back to men who would write short but interesting and thoughtful answers. I would never, ever write back to a guy who wrote like two word responses. That would just show me a lack of interest and even manners.

[ConfusedDater]

No, sorry, but I don't think this is the case. Email IS the first form of communication with online dating. And I would be really put off if someone was sending emails like that. I did a lot of online dating before, and I would always write back to men who would write short but interesting and thoughtful answers. I would never, ever write back to a guy who wrote like two word responses. That would just show me a lack of interest and even manners.

 

i think it had a lot to do with me being bored with email interaction when I'm at home. See it's only when I'm at work when i don't mind emailing back and forth. At home I was short because I was trying to hurry and get to a phone conversation.

[boo121]

No, sorry, but I don't think this is the case. Email IS the first form of communication with online dating. And I would be really put off if someone was sending emails like that. I did a lot of online dating before, and I would always write back to men who would write short but interesting and thoughtful answers. I would never, ever write back to a guy who wrote like two word responses. That would just show me a lack of interest and even manners.

 

Email is the only form of communication with online dating.

 

You can't communicate much in email whatsoever. Im not a fan of online dating, why not just skip this step entirely and meet women elsewhere...

 

in this case - "what do you do for a living?" he replies back "careers advisor (correct me if im wrong cd)" .... boring, next! if he replies back "don't be nosey!" or "have a guess..." this is a little more interesting. And when you receive 25 replies from guys who give boring reponses, this one will stand out.