thouse Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 When a guy stares into your eyes during sex?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 'i'm so doing you.' either that or he is falling in love with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kyriel Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Depends. Is it a blank stare or is there some thought behind it. Because one way it can mean an endearment, and the other could mean he's zoning. One is obviously better than the other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seraphim Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 He wants to be sure that he is pleasuring you and he wants to see the expression on your face when you orgasm. It makes it feel better for him and for you. The eyes are a fabulous form of communication. I love it when a man goes all glassy eyed....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amtjrtcet Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 'i'm so doing you.' either that or he is falling in love with you. REALLY? Just cuz he stares during sex? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redhearts Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Depends, it could be that hes trying really hard to not think of another women, its his thing, or hes really feeling a connection. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jettison Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 He wants to be sure that he is pleasuring you and he wants to see the expression on your face when you orgasm. It makes it feel better for him and for you. The eyes are a fabulous form of communication. I love it when a man goes all glassy eyed....... I like that from a woman as well. I used to tell my ex, "Oh, you've got 'love eyes' again." She got glassy-eyed all the time. Love was written all over her face. That stuff is good times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thouse Posted August 13, 2008 Author Share Posted August 13, 2008 I like that from a woman as well. I used to tell my ex, "Oh, you've got 'love eyes' again." She got glassy-eyed all the time. Love was written all over her face. That stuff is good times. I think the above is what it is because it's not a blank stare it's like a lovey dovey stare. I just wanted some different opinions on why guys stare. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
livefree Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 I love it...It's a good sign of being comfortable with the other person Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thouse Posted August 13, 2008 Author Share Posted August 13, 2008 Depends. Is it a blank stare or is there some thought behind it. Because one way it can mean an endearment, and the other could mean he's zoning. One is obviously better than the other. No, it's not a blank stare, I can tell there's some thought or feeling behind it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amipushy Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 REALLY? Just cuz he stares during sex? I find the "i'm so doing you" more accurate. Cos I'm doing it back and thinking " i know and i'm lovin' it" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 REALLY? Just cuz he stares during sex? some guys might. me? i don't. i'm looking down and at your chest. looking for what ima grab next or slap. so... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greywolf Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 When I look into my SOs eyes during sex it's because I'm trying to connect with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KG Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 It's the ultimate connection...looking into her eyes as you enjoy the O. Bestest! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thouse Posted August 13, 2008 Author Share Posted August 13, 2008 When I look into my SOs eyes during sex it's because I'm trying to connect with her. Yeah, me and him have been seeing each other on and off for about 5 years so it's not like we are new to having sex with each other, and sometimes when he kisses me he looks into my eyes then too, I think he is trying to connect with me and I want to connect with him but I don't want to make the wrong assumption. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greywolf Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Yeah, me and him have been seeing each other on and off for about 5 years so it's not like we are new to having sex with each other, and sometimes when he kisses me he looks into my eyes then too, I think he is trying to connect with me and I want to connect with him but I don't want to make the wrong assumption. I think 5 years is a long time to be together and not know what he's doing when he looks into your eyes. Why don't you ask him about it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thouse Posted August 13, 2008 Author Share Posted August 13, 2008 I think 5 years is a long time to be together and not know what he's doing when he looks into your eyes. Why don't you ask him about it? Because we have been on and off so I am not sure, and I don't want to ask and look stupid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greywolf Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Because we have been on and off so I am not sure, and I don't want to ask and look stupid. If he really loves you, then it doesn't matter if you'll look stupid or not. Being in a good relationship means letting go of all your pride. And if he treats you like you asked something stupid, then he doesn't deserve you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazyaboutdogs Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 I think the staring into the eyes is going to be dependent on the nature of the relationship. If it is between two loving couples who are very much in love with each other then the staring into the eyes can be very much an expression of love and connection. If the sex is simply casual between two people who don't know each other well or have an established Fbuddy relationship then the staring into the eyes is not about connection in a love way it would be more of "I am doing you" or zoning out and focusing on getting that orgasm. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greywolf Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 I think the staring into the eyes is going to be dependent on the nature of the relationship. If it is between two loving couples who are very much in love with each other then the staring into the eyes can be very much an expression of love and connection. If the sex is simply casual between two people who don't know each other well or have an established Fbuddy relationship then the staring into the eyes is not about connection in a love way it would be more of "I am doing you" or zoning out and focusing on getting that orgasm. That's true. Sometimes my SO and I look at each other when we're having a particularly fun time. When that happens we're usually looking at each other with grins on our faces. hehehe. I could describe it alot more but eh.... probably TMI for you guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jen_jj Posted August 18, 2008 Share Posted August 18, 2008 To see you enjoying yourself... and to feel closer to one another Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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