audrey28 Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 i have been doing ok most of the time now...except now, i feel quite lonely and i miss my ex.... it sounds pathetic but i unblocked him from my messenger list....and just seeing his name gives me some relief.... i know i should stick to nc bec that's the only way. it is quite lonely though... Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Stick to NC, its been a week for me and Im feeling great, sorted my room out, made myself look good, havent been near him at ALL. And I feel all the better for it. Link to comment
riley123 Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Loneliness and missing the ex is very common when the weekend roles around. Try and make firm plans with some friends or family, and do something fun this weekend that will take your mind off of him. Stay strong and stick to NC. Link to comment
starlight40 Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Hey Audrey, im in exactly the same position as you, ive been doing okay aswell until now, even down to the messenger thing- ive done the same so i know what you are going through if that helps. Link to comment
brian123 Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 The best thing to do is to TOTALLY remove them from your life. Make plans, keep as busy as you possibly can. Do something new everyday, and do something to better yourself everyday. You will get there! Link to comment
Kahdeksan Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 I just finished watching 'Rescue Dawn' brilliant film by the way! The ordeals they went though - every time I see stuff like that I'm reminded of her. Because when ever she felt down I was there for her... I can't do that no more... I feel so sad. I know what you're going through, we all know and walk that path... but think of it this way, better to walk it than to stay put. At least that way we'll reach the end at some point... Link to comment
audrey28 Posted August 1, 2008 Author Share Posted August 1, 2008 thanks everyone. i am just reading a book to pass the time. i guess it doesn't help that i am physically sick (with the flu) which triggers the loneliness (thoughts of how nice it would have been if he were here to take care of me). blocked him again. can't believe it's been 2 months since the breakup. Link to comment
Kahdeksan Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Poor you, I know how that is, but you nurture yourself and give the flu the boot! I just got done recovering from a flu for a week, it was terrible a time to wade through... couldn't really go out, I was all red and ghastly looking. Get better!! Link to comment
liquer Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 i have been doing ok most of the time now...except now, i feel quite lonely and i miss my ex.... it sounds pathetic but i unblocked him from my messenger list....and just seeing his name gives me some relief.... i know i should stick to nc bec that's the only way. it is quite lonely though... Give it time, you'll get over him. Link to comment
kuhl282000 Posted August 2, 2008 Share Posted August 2, 2008 I know how you feel ....you can see them online and you want to click in ....but you know you can't ....and you wait for them and they don't show ......no calls no emails ......its so sad when people break up I like happy endings Link to comment
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