winter whiteout Posted June 28, 2008 Share Posted June 28, 2008 If you have a love interest and you see this woman on a regular basis whether it is at work or somewhere you frequent and you are smitten with her and are thinking about how to approach her what are the kind of things you think about when you are at home at night? What are your fantasies about her? Inquiring minds want to know!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doyathink Posted June 28, 2008 Share Posted June 28, 2008 LOL ww...has he said anything to you yet? Or you to him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winter whiteout Posted June 28, 2008 Author Share Posted June 28, 2008 I have not been at work since Wednesday and won't see him until Monday. But all this has made me wonder what men fantasize about when they have a love interest. I don't think I have seen a topic about it yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clarity Posted June 28, 2008 Share Posted June 28, 2008 It totally depends on the guy, the girl, and the type of infatuation. He might be fantasizing about sex, or just having fun together, or having a long-term relationship with her, or just kissing - who knows - it's totally an individual trait. If I have a "crush" on a girl (rarely happens anymore), I often just admire her from afar, or imagine that she'd make a really good girlfriend (whether that's actually true or not, I have no idea!). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doyathink Posted June 28, 2008 Share Posted June 28, 2008 I haven't either. But I would assume it's about the same as what we fantasize about. Most men are almost human. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dream83 Posted June 28, 2008 Share Posted June 28, 2008 I don't know if you want to know what he thinks about when he's home alone at night thinking about you Althought, it could make good fodder for conversation later if the two of you were to have a relationship down the road. But, for now he's probably thinking something along the lines of the fantasy from the other thread...you showing up to work baring cleavage, wearing sexy shoes and *accidentally* dropping your pen in front of his door...after that point you probably really, really don't want to know what he imagines happening next Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dream83 Posted June 28, 2008 Share Posted June 28, 2008 I haven't either. But I would assume it's about the same as what we fantasize about. Most men are almost human. lol Best statement ever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winter whiteout Posted June 28, 2008 Author Share Posted June 28, 2008 Actually I am not asking what he in particular thinks about I am just asking a general question to the men out there about what they fantasize about a woman they are smitten with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supa_gurl Posted June 28, 2008 Share Posted June 28, 2008 I want to know too. I have often wondered when I was younger. I know when I was smitten I would dream of a walk down the isle. GEEZ I am such a girl!! I want to know about the men! C'mon and answer you chickens! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SupaflyTNT Posted June 28, 2008 Share Posted June 28, 2008 Depends on what mood I'm in when I'm thinking about her. I could be fantasizing about having sex with her, I could be fantasizing about being in a relationship with her. If I'm seriously interested in her then I'm definitely thinking about her in some manner though, there's no doubt there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loki71 Posted June 28, 2008 Share Posted June 28, 2008 Most of the time when I was younger it was about sex with her. Then I saw my wife for the first time all I could think about was being with her and having a future with her. So it depends on the age and where you are in life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazyaboutdogs Posted June 28, 2008 Share Posted June 28, 2008 I don't know if you want to know what he thinks about when he's home alone at night thinking about you Althought, it could make good fodder for conversation later if the two of you were to have a relationship down the road. But, for now he's probably thinking something along the lines of the fantasy from the other thread...you showing up to work baring cleavage, wearing sexy shoes and *accidentally* dropping your pen in front of his door...after that point you probably really, really don't want to know what he imagines happening next There has to be a mini mini skirt worked into that particular fantasy as well LOL. I would think that the fantasy depends on what the guy is looking for in that women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 i don't fantasize. i go up and talk to them. that either leads to the fantasy or having to hit on another girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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