barbielovesmac Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 oh! AND we lived together, LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doyathink Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 Depends on the guy. My ex? I'd choose sleep...it was much more fulfilling... And no BJ's or kissing that early. God, I can't stand morning breath, or junk thats sit there roasting all night. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nixee Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 I agree that the answers will just vary. Even with the same guy I was with for 7 years... there were times in our relationship where I'd say the sex fo sho.... and other times when I'd say "oh gawd get off me just lemme sleep..." ... all depends on the health of the relationship. But generally speaking, sex 110% ... ghost is right, good exercise (sexercise?)... good way to start the day, and heck, I'm an insomniac who wakes up before my alarm goes off anyways... might as well do something more fun with the extra time anyways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sunshine311 Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 For me anyway, it's like this; before my husband and I were married, we'd stay up till 4 am having sex on the weekends, after a night of drinking there was always the hot drunken sex when we got home, when waking in the morning it was always nice to get some lovin in before getting up. But then you move in together and get married. Just the other day we were talking about how our sex life used to be, and how it is now. Oh don't get me wrong, we still have plenty of sex, but not during the same hours! LOL When you live together you don't have to take advantage of every moment to have sex, because you're together every day. Sometimes you're just tired. It's OK not to stay up late and have sex if we're tired, because in the morning we'll still be together, and maybe we'll have sex that day instead. That's the great thing about marriage, while we don't have sex any less than what we used to, we just now can have it at more convieniant times! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sunshine311 Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 its more of a question of opportunity. if i live with him and can get it whenever i want, id take the sleep. but if i only can get it at select times i pick sex. Well put! Exactly what I was talking about in my previous post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayar Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 Me instigating? It purely depends on how awake I am when the alarm goes off. However, if he'd instigate I would 110% be up for it any time, regardless. If I'm not that tired, sure, I'd go for the sex. If I am dead tired and he hasn't woken up to instigate, it's unlikely I'd wake him up. Probably most people who say they would are putting on a front. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NowandZen Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 LOL...there's a lot of truth in this statement. OK, all together now... New couples are going to say sex. Married, or long term couples are going to say sleep. No doubt. If I tried to deprive the wife of sleep for sex, I'd be without either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted June 24, 2008 Author Share Posted June 24, 2008 I know, I was surprised that she beat you to it. probably cause it's my thread. she likes to warp and dirty my mind on my threads. it's working. sex for sure. but im like a flippin rabbit. i go for it ANY chance i can get it ... my ex and i used to have sex AT LEAST 3-4 times A DAY ... EVERYDAY. maybe that's why it's so hard to get over him, lol. sex. fo sho! what time you wanna get up? lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djn31 Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Depends on the guy. My ex? I'd choose sleep...it was much more fulfilling... And no BJ's or kissing that early. God, I can't stand morning breath, or junk thats sit there roasting all night. holy hell that made me laugh... but back on topic I would chose sex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Papillion Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Sex. Every time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metrogirl Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Can I just sleep while he is having sex with me? That way we both get what we want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tiredofvampires Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 do you want 10 more minutes of sleep or get some action for at least 10 minutes? 10 minutes? That would be 5 minutes just to rouse out of sleep. And then...5 minutes of action? 5 minutes of sex, which is half groggy. Hmm. I admire you ladies that are up-and-at-em during this window of time! And...I've never really been all that involved in sex for it's 15-calorie-a-minute cardio workout benefits. If I had to compromise, I'd take the half-a-calorie-a-minute spooning and dozing off again. But for me -- sleep, sleep. Just let me sleep until I wake up naturally....you'll be glad you waited. The benefits come in when I'm well-rested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted June 25, 2008 Author Share Posted June 25, 2008 10 minutes? That would be 5 minutes just to rouse out of sleep. And then...5 minutes of action? 5 minutes of sex, which is half groggy. Hmm. I admire you ladies that are up-and-at-em during this window of time! And...I've never really been all that involved in sex for it's 15-calorie-a-minute cardio workout benefits. If I had to compromise, I'd take the half-a-calorie-a-minute spooning and dozing off again. But for me -- sleep, sleep. Just let me sleep until I wake up naturally....you'll be glad you waited. The benefits come in when I'm well-rested. you will also lose your job for being late. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kenshinkitten Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Sex Please!! ^^ I feel like such a pervert. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tiredofvampires Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 you will also lose your job for being late. Ah, the benefits of being self-employed. That aside though, if I have to go somewhere early, I sleep up until the last minute possible. Haha. The 10 minutes is to get ready to be out the door. I'm a relatively low-maintenance gal in that respect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snoopy24 Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 I like sex when I wake up in the morning on the weekends..at like 11am. If my alarm is going off, that means it's like 6am..and i'll take the SLEEP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doyathink Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 holy hell that made me laugh... but back on topic I would chose sex I read your thread, I know you would do it. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djn31 Posted June 26, 2008 Share Posted June 26, 2008 I read your thread, I know you would do it. lol I did say that.... and I stand by it haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ycmanvs Posted June 26, 2008 Share Posted June 26, 2008 I absolutely love morning sex. It is better than a cup of coffee. If my SO is "up" for it, so am I. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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