flip4ever Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 OK so i met (re-met) this girl last summer, ( i knew her before but i didn't really talk to her all the time), i'll call her Jane in this post. i was in a relationship at the time, and i talked with jane all the time about the problems i was having with my long distance relationship. so my girl friend and i broke up, i was hurt and not ready to get serious for awhile. I knew jane liked me, but i wasn't ready, so i made her believe i liked someone else...alot...which i really didn't. so anyways school comes around, and i'm still not ready, i'm serious damaged at this point. still. so i set jane up with a friend, not thinking, and dated someone to try to get my self esteem back, which didn't work cause she broke up with me after a week, so i'm confused by this, and in the meen time jane is still with my friend. i'm hurt and jane is seemingly happy, so i try to pursue the girl who just dumped me, i made myself like her because i told myself i did, over and over, anyways about three four month later jane tells me she's in love with me, and she has been for awhile (yes ik ur gonn asay she's a stupid teen and i'm a stupid teen but w/e) she said this and i told her i couldn't hurt my friend, and that her and I had to be just friends right now. ok so anyways now we're dating she broke up w/my friend after 8 months, after i slipt and told her i liked her, and now jane is w/me, but now jane doesn't believe me when i tell her stuff, and she thinks that i'm lieing about likeing her since last summer, since i dennied it to everyone even though i always hinted i did, she admited there were times she thought i liked her before, but she says i was just flirting with her for fun,and that i flirt with everyone, which i don't, and if i do i do it different, and she thinks i'm going to leave her for another girl (the one i was pursueing while she dated my friend) and that girl is causeing some problems by saying stuff to jane. i don't know what to do i can honestly say i love jane, and she loves me, i don't know if we'll make it forever since we're still in high school, but i'd like it too, and i believe her not trusting me and hateing me for what i did will cause this not to work. what can i do to prove to her that i love her and she can trust me, and that i wont leave her for someone else??? please help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 you can only continue to gain her trust. but i wouldn't be with someone who doesn't trust me yet they want to be with me. it's all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flip4ever Posted June 27, 2008 Author Share Posted June 27, 2008 yeh, thats what i'm trying to do, and i see where your coming from. and yes its very confusing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted June 27, 2008 Share Posted June 27, 2008 yeh, thats what i'm trying to do, and i see where your coming from. and yes its very confusing just keep at it. if you feel they will never trust you, bail out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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