Aldo25 Posted June 14, 2008 Share Posted June 14, 2008 Disclaimer here: I realize it's not the best idea to ask out coworkers, but I have no life outside of work, thereforeee my whole social life is done at work. With that said: A new girl started in the bakery today, kind of cute, seems nice, and is single. I'm afraid I might creep her out if I had asked her out right away. So should I get to know her a little first? Or just go ahead and ask her out, I mean if she says no she says no, not the end of the world. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Russ Posted June 14, 2008 Share Posted June 14, 2008 I'd cozy into being friends with her first. You get to see if there's a point in asking her out. You could be completely different and it could be a waste of time if you don't do your research Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DjSystemz Posted June 14, 2008 Share Posted June 14, 2008 i would def. try to get to know her a bit better and get to the friend point first before you ask her out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chow Evan Posted June 14, 2008 Share Posted June 14, 2008 a week at least. as far as i'm concerned, we should know each other abit little, before we date. if she don't even know your name, how can you ask her out? buy things in her shop as frequent as you can, just make more chance meet her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sky_Ronin Posted June 14, 2008 Share Posted June 14, 2008 Do not ask her out right away. That would be a bad idea. You gotta work you way up and build a foundation with her. It would be easier if she feels comfortable, safe and happy around you and that takes time and dedication. Test the water before you jump in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrCrazy2u Posted June 14, 2008 Share Posted June 14, 2008 Go over and introduce yourself with, "Hi, my name is xxxxxx. I heard you just started here." As for no social life outside of work. We're gonna have to work on that. PM'ed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aldo25 Posted June 15, 2008 Author Share Posted June 15, 2008 Eh, I think I'll work on getting to know her first before I think about dating. I'm impulsive a lot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 make friends with her. go to lunch and things like that. then if you feel you have a lot in common, ask her for her number. she will probably ask why. then you tell her to go out sometime. then say 'outside of work.' she will get the clue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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