amipushy Posted June 11, 2008 Share Posted June 11, 2008 God, I feel really silly but I met a man, had a date and we hit it off, i left him a message saying I had a fantastic time and would like to meet up again. He sent me one back saying yea he thinks that we should too and he said "so take care catch up soon." and a little pair of hugging cute smilies. What now? Do I just leave this space from him to fill and fix a date or should I reply saying "cool, speak soon"? My gut until 15 minute ago told me to leave him set something up but now I'm not so sure. He knows I'm away this weekend and I don't want to come over too keen or desperate but I also don't want him to think I'm rude or annoyed that he didnt set up a date and am ignoring him. This dating thing rises such anxiety in me, I never know what to do for the best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brian123 Posted June 11, 2008 Share Posted June 11, 2008 Once you get back from this weekend ask him if he'd like to get together for but that you know he is busy, so if he cannot you understand. This way if he likes you, he will def make sure to get together, but if he doesn't then you leave the door open to say he is busy and it makes this less awkward. There is no problem in seeming a bit forward. It's how you find things out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drewciouS281 Posted June 11, 2008 Share Posted June 11, 2008 you can either do what brian123 said or reply back saying "sounds good, give me a call sometime". short and sweet. this way your leaving the ball in his court to contact you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riley123 Posted June 11, 2008 Share Posted June 11, 2008 you can either do what brian123 said or reply back saying "sounds good, give me a call sometime". short and sweet. this way your leaving the ball in his court to contact you. I agree with Drew, do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 you can either do what brian123 said or reply back saying "sounds good, give me a call sometime". short and sweet. this way your leaving the ball in his court to contact you. definitely do this. then it's known. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amipushy Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 Actually ghost, this has moved on to.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Actually ghost, this has moved on to.. ] sorry, i'm a bit behind. trying to catch up. i posted there as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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