servedcold Posted June 6, 2008 Share Posted June 6, 2008 This guy reads the news right? He has to have a more formal speech pattern generally, then, and this probably carries over some into his day to day speaking as he may not want to sound inconsistent to people who hear his voice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted June 6, 2008 Share Posted June 6, 2008 Dont you mean he ate me!! i think he wants to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lillie Posted June 6, 2008 Author Share Posted June 6, 2008 This guy reads the news right? He has to have a more formal speech pattern generally, then, and this probably carries over some into his day to day speaking as he may not want to sound inconsistent to people who hear his voice. No trust me served he is very well spoken due to his upbringing,although he isnt a snob at all from what i can tell.. Contact has been a little lean since our date. He has to get up at 4am so he goes to bed early on a night. Not sure if this is a no no for me as im quite a night owl. Most of my energy comes in the evening and i like to stay out late at friends houses too. We have only emailed & texed breifly since that night,so im thinking about calling Keifer who lives quite close to see if he would like to go out one night next week. I know it sounds shallow but when i want something & i get a taste of it i have to have it & quick. Iv just been on my own too long & want the whole nine yards asap. I cant be bothered hanging around trying to second guess people. I like it to be very direct,black & white. Do you think im impatient or frustrated? I do!lol ](*,) But im not getting any younger! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lillie Posted June 6, 2008 Author Share Posted June 6, 2008 i think he wants to. Me too! Not so sure now though,but to hell with it! I was looking forward to showing him how the other half lived!lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lillie Posted June 6, 2008 Author Share Posted June 6, 2008 Im going to have to chill!! But when im so revved up & ready to go,up anchor & set sail!!lol I am very hypo sometimes & i hate dragging my feet. Not that i would tell my prospective partner how eager i was,but i do buzz along at a rate of knots sometimes.. I think im just raring to go with a new,different man. I mean i have had sex with the same man for 4/5 years,who doesnt love me or give me any attention as its just sex. Im like bursting at the seems to be honest! It must be my hormones or something.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnightrambler Posted June 6, 2008 Share Posted June 6, 2008 Im going to have to chill!! But when im so revved up & ready to go,up anchor & set sail!!lol I am very hypo sometimes & i hate dragging my feet. Not that i would tell my prospective partner how eager i was,but i do buzz along at a rate of knots sometimes.. I think im just raring to go with a new,different man. I mean i have had sex with the same man for 4/5 years,who doesnt love me or give me any attention as its just sex. Im like bursting at the seems to be honest! It must be my hormones or something.. the girl's gotta have it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lillie Posted June 6, 2008 Author Share Posted June 6, 2008 the girl's gotta have it I have T,i just feel like im banging my head against a brick wall.. But i would never let on how frustrated/eager/desperate i am!lol Or maybe i should? Maybe he would like a forward woman? No better not... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnightrambler Posted June 6, 2008 Share Posted June 6, 2008 I have T,i just feel like im banging my head against a brick wall.. But i would never let on how frustrated/eager/desperate i am!lol Or maybe i should? Maybe he would like a forward woman? No better not... i say the next time you bring him to your room, escape to the bathroom and come out in a garter and a corset...let him decide from there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lillie Posted June 6, 2008 Author Share Posted June 6, 2008 i say the next time you bring him to your room, escape to the bathroom and come out in a garter and a corset...let him decide from there I could do that easily. But its just going to end up being all about sex again. Why should i always feel like a madam!! Im more than a plaything,so the next man isnt having any! And thats going to be tougher on me trust me.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnightrambler Posted June 6, 2008 Share Posted June 6, 2008 I could do that easily. But its just going to end up being all about sex again. Why should i always feel like a madam!! Im more than a plaything,so the next man isnt having any! And thats going to be tougher on me trust me.. a leopard can't change its spots...not healthy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lillie Posted June 6, 2008 Author Share Posted June 6, 2008 a leopard can't change its spots...not healthy I know your right. You know where im coming from.. But i am going to try. I need to be loved not desired! Im just letting off steam,better here than to him or fwb.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnightrambler Posted June 6, 2008 Share Posted June 6, 2008 I know your right. You know where im coming from.. But i am going to try. I need to be loved not desired! Im just letting off steam,better here than to him or fwb.. love the one you are with Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lillie Posted June 6, 2008 Author Share Posted June 6, 2008 love the one you are with Hahaha Trampler you s*ck sometimes!!! In the nicest possible way of course!lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
servedcold Posted June 6, 2008 Share Posted June 6, 2008 Don't go jumping off the deep end Holly! Two weeks ago, you were just exploring getting back into dating. Now you have options and several men in the picture. I'd say that's pretty fast progress in two weeks. Maybe pledge to yourself to spend a month getting to know these men before jumping into anything. You are doing great. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnightrambler Posted June 6, 2008 Share Posted June 6, 2008 Don't go jumping off the deep end Holly! Two weeks ago, you were just exploring getting back into dating. Now you have options and several men in the picture. I'd say that's pretty fast progress in two weeks. Maybe pledge to yourself to spend a month getting to know these men before jumping into anything. You are doing great. i say sample each one then narrow the choice down to two Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lillie Posted June 6, 2008 Author Share Posted June 6, 2008 Don't go jumping off the deep end Holly! Two weeks ago, you were just exploring getting back into dating. Now you have options and several men in the picture. I'd say that's pretty fast progress in two weeks. Maybe pledge to yourself to spend a month getting to know these men before jumping into anything. You are doing great. I wont served. But two weeks ago i still had my fwb to help me out with my frustrations. Its like trying to give up smoking,i dont want to sleep with him but i cant help it becasue its like an addiction & the only physical contact i have. And its so easy. Even though fwb knows iv been out dating a couple of times,he will still come round when summoned..I am trying to break the cycle. But without wanting to sound cheap,i cant help my animal instincts,they seem to override my brain & common sense. I wont jump into bed with ANYONE now,im determined. Im sure i have a mans brain in a womans body. Not that iv ever slept about. I havent had to have i what with having fwb. To be honest i think im a bit shocked that im actually attracted to a new man. Iv never really done that before,iv always known them for a long time first. So im in virgin territory.. I wont be chasing him or jumping in though,my exterior is as cool as a cucumber,just not the interior! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted June 6, 2008 Share Posted June 6, 2008 Me too! Not so sure now though,but to hell with it! I was looking forward to showing him how the other half lived!lol the, uhm, 'southern' half of lillie? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lillie Posted June 6, 2008 Author Share Posted June 6, 2008 i say sample each one then narrow the choice down to two Well thats what i was going to do,but 6 takes some going through! AND iv stalled at number two,he caught me unawares.. Im going to phone Keifer over the weekend anyway. It will keep my mind off number 2...The others will just complicate matters at the moment so il have to put them permanently on hold for now.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lillie Posted June 6, 2008 Author Share Posted June 6, 2008 the, uhm, 'southern' half of lillie? Its the opposite way around in England. Im from the north and we are (so it is reported) seen as commoners!lol Like your southerners! haha But i actually meant something slightly different to north V south... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted June 6, 2008 Share Posted June 6, 2008 Its the opposite way around in England. Im from the north and we are (so it is reported) seen as commoners!lol Like your southerners! haha But i actually meant something slightly different to north V south... ahha. gotcha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xXxLancexXx Posted June 6, 2008 Share Posted June 6, 2008 Hmm, interesting. I would absolutely kiss someone like that on the first date, but I would smoothly lead up to it with flirty body language and flirty touches throughout the night...that way, the girl isn't "shocked" when you go in for the kiss. You know what I'm talking about? The incidental touches on the arm and shoulder, heavy flirting, etc? Since he did none of them, he just went in for the shocker kiss, which I'm not a fan of. Are you attracted to this guy? Are their any more flags on him? I would actually beware if he keeps doing this with all the boundaries you've set. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JadedStar Posted June 6, 2008 Share Posted June 6, 2008 get a new plan... pleasure him and end the suspense Believe it or not i agree with this. LOL If you already said you "warned" him no sex until you want to rip his clothes off he alraedy knows he is going to be getting it at some point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lillie Posted June 7, 2008 Author Share Posted June 7, 2008 Believe it or not i agree with this. LOL If you already said you "warned" him no sex until you want to rip his clothes off he alraedy knows he is going to be getting it at some point. Well doesnt everyone above a certain age get it at some point? Or do they not? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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