dani_7 Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 My friend sent me this question/problem and since I don't know the answer I thought I would post it here and see what everyone else says. I was recently hanging out with some friends and I called one guy little. He laughed, but whined that he was not that little. I was talking about his waist/stomach, and since thats where my hands were I assumed he know that. Maybe not. We were with several other guys, some bigger, and at least one the same size or smaller. My question is, why did he get upset about it? What was the big deal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cheer_Babe Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 its most likely pride..some giys think if they are small..that means they are weak or less manly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redhearts Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 Oh my ya never tell a guy hes small. That'll kill his ego. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
volpe Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 yeah don't do that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mythical_Suicide Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 It's a pride thing.. He will get over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jettison Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 Similarly, don't go around calling a woman a "big girl". "Wow, you're really a big girl." Does it all make sense now? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knightNshiningarmor Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 Similarly, don't go around calling a woman a "big girl". "Wow, you're really a big girl." Does it all make sense now? haha nice jett...ya id same it would be about the same Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MyNinja Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 maybe he already had some self confidence issues about his size and u just confirmed it....I've seen this happen plenty times..not your fault Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thejigsup Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 Big, small, short, tall, it's all good. No need for him to get touchy. I've been called a "big girl". So what? I am not little! It's just the truth. Sheesh! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knightNshiningarmor Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 Big, small, short, tall, it's all good. No need for him to get touchy. I've been called a "big girl". So what? I am not little! It's just the truth. Sheesh! ya but ever have those nights where maybe you are feeling lowest on the wrong and how a wrongly timed comment like this could really set you back a little. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dani_7 Posted June 4, 2008 Author Share Posted June 4, 2008 I talked to my friend and got a bit more info on the other guys they were with, if this helps. one guy was 6"4 but average build, two, were around the same height as he was, but both overweight, and the other was about his height and weight, but maybe smaller, didn't pay much attention to him exactly. He was about 6-6"2 and slim to average build, and like I said, my hands were on his waist when I said he was little. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JadedStar Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 I dont think its very nice to tell a guy he is little, nor do i think it is nice to tell a girl she is big. I think people know their sizes without being reminded. I am sure it was not said with intent to hurt his feelings but some people are more sensitive than others. it is a good practice to just not comment on people's body parts. Imagine a guy wiht his hands on a girls waist saying "you are big". For a guy being called little can be as sensitive as being called big can be to a female. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 he already has a complex about it. that's why he is offended. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JadedStar Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 he already has a complex about it. that's why he is offended. Right. It is his achille's heel. Anytime we have something aobut our bodies that we have a complex over we get really defensive if someone mentions it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carmine Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 For a second there, I thought you meant you called another part of him little would REALLY hurt. he already has a complex about it. that's why he is offended. yeah, I used to be really self-conscious about skin and fat left around my chest from when I was overweight (man-boobs), and there's still a bit left, but now when a girl touches me there and makes fun of me for not having a rock-solid peck, I just laugh and pick on something about her. I would've felt offended years ago, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
servedcold Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 Any comments about someone's physicality, personality traits or lifestyle are risky before you know them, even compliments. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dani_7 Posted June 4, 2008 Author Share Posted June 4, 2008 I just talked to my friend again, and she told me a funny part of the story. Early on in the evening, she asked him how tall he was, he said "6-6"1, but I'm gonna tell you 6"2." Would it have matter who said it to him or did he maybe like my friend and that's why it bothered him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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