ghost69 Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 i like how you replied about the car and the phone and disregarded everything we all said about your relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Japanfreak05 Posted June 7, 2008 Author Share Posted June 7, 2008 i like how you replied about the car and the phone and disregarded everything we all said about your relationship. I know. But that doesn't mean I didn't read it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLU Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 It scares me how much this reminds me of my situation. I did almost the same dumb thing to my girlfriend and we're currently duking it out. I did the same: lash out and prevent her from getting in touch. I thought of it because in the moment I had been really miserable and just... desperate. In hindsight I realized it was dumb and that I had pushed her farther away. If I can guess at your bf's behaviour because of how it parallels what I did, he was feeling vulnerable and had the have an outlet for his desperation and anger. He couldn't fight the world because he found out his mom has cancer, but he could point blame. At anything, at anyone. Unfortunately, you are the closest one to him and this is what he thought of. You are unfortunately the target of his aggression and anxiety. However, this doesn't mean that he doesn't care for you. He very much needs you there. I did what I did as a desperate cry for attention in my moment of insecurity. I think he's similar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Japanfreak05 Posted June 10, 2008 Author Share Posted June 10, 2008 Thanks, that really helped a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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